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looks like i'm gonna be a daddy, how did you folks pass your love of the outdoors on to your children? any tips?

Question by hunt3r. Uploaded on March 10, 2010

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from buckhunter wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

I purchased my son his first gun while he was still in the womb.

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from fishstalker wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

My dad gave me his hunting knife.

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from Hobob wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Patience and keep it interesting. Kids have short attention spans, so did we but we don't remember. Just ask your parents.

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from libertyfirst wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Don't be selfish with your time. Send as much of it with your kids as you can and make sure that the walk in the woods is as common as the walk up the driveway. Introduce your children to guns in the proper way and make sure the safety element is built into them at the earliest of ages. Teach them about nature, real nature, not the hollywood crap. Make sure that they know the role that animals play in our lives. Teach them love and respect for what we have as outdoors men and it will come back to you over and over throughout your life. Congratulations on being a father.

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from Clay Cooper wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

One step at a time there Dad!

It's a case by case bases.

When they show an interest then it's time, not 10, not 13 or 17, it's now!

You will know when time is right you will handle just fine.

Do not settle for just make do. Bring them up with the proper training and adequate equipment to be the best!

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from Edward J. Palumbo wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Outstanding! Let them into your life and give them the time and attention they deserve. In time, while they're still in single digits, they'll want to accompany you in the things you enjoy. Make room for them. Yes, there'll be times you'll want solitude and you'll want to get away. That's understandable, but don't monopolize your own time (because it isn't YOURS anymore). Later, they'll make it all worth it. Take them camping and fishing. Let them earn your trust through a gradual development of responsibilities and praise them when they try their best, reward them when they do well.
If they show a curiosity about your firearms, allow them to examine them or help clean them ONLY when you are present, and that'll eliminate the attraction of forbidden objects. Demonstrate your respect and appreciation of the environment, and they'll understand that at an early age. BE THERE for them. I'm happy for you, and thankful for my daughter and son.

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from jbird wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Can't put it any better than the posts above. I read an article when my first child was very young that said you'll have some busted hunts,and alot of hunts cut short, but they'll only be that age once, so enjoy it, and let em' go at their own pace. Now she's 12, my boy's 8, and before you know it, they'll be all grown up, and I'll really miss these days of short hunts, and constant 'snack breaks'. Congrats. I say start taking them whenever they want to go w/you. My daughter started goin w/me @5, I shot a nice tom w/my son when he was 3, my wife laughed at me when I said I was going to take him turkey hunting. Some of my very fondest memories.

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from joelr271 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Congrats! Get the youngster involved at a young age.

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from Jere Smith wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

I cannot ad more than Congratulations !!! Start early training.

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from 007 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Congrats, you are about to be infinitely blessed and if you do your part, your life will never be the same again. Include them, explain to them, but do not force them. Make it fun and comfortable. My kids started going to the woods and waters with me when they were around 5 or 6, I started them with firearms around 10 or so, and today my son, 26, and daughter, 22, are my all time favorite hunting and fishing buddies. You're about to enter the best times of your life, enjoy it to the full, and don't waste a second. Again, congrats.

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from rudyglove27 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

congratulations and your life is about to change for good...Nature walks and outdoor experiences. One of my favorite things to do with my son is go for nature walks. You can even do this in a local park — you don’t have to get out of town. Talk about trees and rocks, bushes and flowers, and see if you can spot wildlife. Many towns also have nature centers. You can check for planned nature walks, as well as day camps aimed at children. As a family, you can go camping, take day trips to picnic areas, go hiking or biking, or even visit the lake (or the ocean). Spending time outdoors is a great way to connect with your child — it’s one of the best family summer time activities!!!

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from PAShooter wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Always make it a positive experience. When my son shot all the pumpkins in my pumpkin patch with his bow at age 3 1/2. I didn't discipline him, but knew he became bored with a target on hay bales. So, I set up his own safe 3-D course around the yard. Later at age 12, he qualified and successfully competed in national compitions. Today, he is 25 and we hunt together whenever we can. My friend has a son who he would be tough on any time he made a mistake while hunting (father's opinion). Well, today his son is 30 and is turned off to hunting. Be encouraging, patient, and provide plenty of experience. Congratulations!

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from rudyglove27 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Youth programs. I was a happily involved in 4-H growing up. There are a number of programs available for children ages 5 and up (younger children, ages 5-8, are actually Cloverbuds). Children meet in clubs and complete projects. My favorite projects included rocketry, geology, forestry and money management. And for older kids, there are conferences, retreats and activities. Other youth programs, such as Boys & Girls Clubs, YMCA, Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts also offer low-cost, fun opportunities for kids of various ages and interests. And they’ll learn something, too!!!

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from Jeff4066 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

You may be the best parent, and the most ardent outdoorsman in history, but I would give one bit of advice that would have helped my grandfather.

As they get older, you may want them to enjoy all those great ideals you believe in. But you can't cram it down their throats. As a very young one, I was dragged, almost physically, to go fishing all the time. What happened is that I grew inside me a hatred of fishing that lives to this day. I have endured days on the side of an ice-covered mountain and been happy, but the thought of spending a warm day on a boat appalls me.

I was determined not to do that to my son. But there are fun ways to get them outdoors. If you have a ten year old and a .22 rifle, it may start them asking when you're going to go out in the woods. That's what worked for us. As he got older, he saw us adults coming back from hunting, shooting, hiking, etc., and wanted to join. It is possibly easier for boys to want this than girls.

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from Sourdough Dave wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Happy quality time spent doing just about anything as a family will give kids warm feelings about the surroundings in which it took place. When the outdoors has been a loving environment with lots of positive memories attached they can't help but love it. Keep it fun. Training can come later. Oh, and congratulations, daddy,

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from 86Ram wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Congrats...
Pass it on slowly... I introduced mine to calls on the back porch... WE drove his momma crazy but he had a ball and so did I.
Grandpa got him a shakespeare combo and he could cast it and real it in in the house off the couch so after the basics we hit the water his first fish ever was a black crappie... been hooked since

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from jakenbake wrote 1 year 47 weeks ago

Just building off of what others have said before, whenever you do take them out, remember that the time you spend with them isn't yours anymore -- it's theirs. Little folk have a lot of needs and if those needs aren't met they get cranky. And if every time they go out with daddy their needs aren't met they're going to have bad associations with those things. Bring snacks. Bundle them up in the cold. Focus on them, not necessarily whatever it is you're after. Build them up. When they get older they'll have an appreciation for what you've done for them and hopefully they'll have a good solid foundation both in the outdoors and for the rest of their life. Congratulations.

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from libertyfirst wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Don't be selfish with your time. Send as much of it with your kids as you can and make sure that the walk in the woods is as common as the walk up the driveway. Introduce your children to guns in the proper way and make sure the safety element is built into them at the earliest of ages. Teach them about nature, real nature, not the hollywood crap. Make sure that they know the role that animals play in our lives. Teach them love and respect for what we have as outdoors men and it will come back to you over and over throughout your life. Congratulations on being a father.

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from buckhunter wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

I purchased my son his first gun while he was still in the womb.

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from fishstalker wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

My dad gave me his hunting knife.

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from Clay Cooper wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

One step at a time there Dad!

It's a case by case bases.

When they show an interest then it's time, not 10, not 13 or 17, it's now!

You will know when time is right you will handle just fine.

Do not settle for just make do. Bring them up with the proper training and adequate equipment to be the best!

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from Edward J. Palumbo wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Outstanding! Let them into your life and give them the time and attention they deserve. In time, while they're still in single digits, they'll want to accompany you in the things you enjoy. Make room for them. Yes, there'll be times you'll want solitude and you'll want to get away. That's understandable, but don't monopolize your own time (because it isn't YOURS anymore). Later, they'll make it all worth it. Take them camping and fishing. Let them earn your trust through a gradual development of responsibilities and praise them when they try their best, reward them when they do well.
If they show a curiosity about your firearms, allow them to examine them or help clean them ONLY when you are present, and that'll eliminate the attraction of forbidden objects. Demonstrate your respect and appreciation of the environment, and they'll understand that at an early age. BE THERE for them. I'm happy for you, and thankful for my daughter and son.

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from jbird wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Can't put it any better than the posts above. I read an article when my first child was very young that said you'll have some busted hunts,and alot of hunts cut short, but they'll only be that age once, so enjoy it, and let em' go at their own pace. Now she's 12, my boy's 8, and before you know it, they'll be all grown up, and I'll really miss these days of short hunts, and constant 'snack breaks'. Congrats. I say start taking them whenever they want to go w/you. My daughter started goin w/me @5, I shot a nice tom w/my son when he was 3, my wife laughed at me when I said I was going to take him turkey hunting. Some of my very fondest memories.

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from Hobob wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Patience and keep it interesting. Kids have short attention spans, so did we but we don't remember. Just ask your parents.

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from joelr271 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Congrats! Get the youngster involved at a young age.

+2 Good Comment? | | Report
from Jeff4066 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

You may be the best parent, and the most ardent outdoorsman in history, but I would give one bit of advice that would have helped my grandfather.

As they get older, you may want them to enjoy all those great ideals you believe in. But you can't cram it down their throats. As a very young one, I was dragged, almost physically, to go fishing all the time. What happened is that I grew inside me a hatred of fishing that lives to this day. I have endured days on the side of an ice-covered mountain and been happy, but the thought of spending a warm day on a boat appalls me.

I was determined not to do that to my son. But there are fun ways to get them outdoors. If you have a ten year old and a .22 rifle, it may start them asking when you're going to go out in the woods. That's what worked for us. As he got older, he saw us adults coming back from hunting, shooting, hiking, etc., and wanted to join. It is possibly easier for boys to want this than girls.

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from Sourdough Dave wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Happy quality time spent doing just about anything as a family will give kids warm feelings about the surroundings in which it took place. When the outdoors has been a loving environment with lots of positive memories attached they can't help but love it. Keep it fun. Training can come later. Oh, and congratulations, daddy,

+2 Good Comment? | | Report
from 86Ram wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Congrats...
Pass it on slowly... I introduced mine to calls on the back porch... WE drove his momma crazy but he had a ball and so did I.
Grandpa got him a shakespeare combo and he could cast it and real it in in the house off the couch so after the basics we hit the water his first fish ever was a black crappie... been hooked since

+2 Good Comment? | | Report
from jakenbake wrote 1 year 47 weeks ago

Just building off of what others have said before, whenever you do take them out, remember that the time you spend with them isn't yours anymore -- it's theirs. Little folk have a lot of needs and if those needs aren't met they get cranky. And if every time they go out with daddy their needs aren't met they're going to have bad associations with those things. Bring snacks. Bundle them up in the cold. Focus on them, not necessarily whatever it is you're after. Build them up. When they get older they'll have an appreciation for what you've done for them and hopefully they'll have a good solid foundation both in the outdoors and for the rest of their life. Congratulations.

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from Jere Smith wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

I cannot ad more than Congratulations !!! Start early training.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from 007 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Congrats, you are about to be infinitely blessed and if you do your part, your life will never be the same again. Include them, explain to them, but do not force them. Make it fun and comfortable. My kids started going to the woods and waters with me when they were around 5 or 6, I started them with firearms around 10 or so, and today my son, 26, and daughter, 22, are my all time favorite hunting and fishing buddies. You're about to enter the best times of your life, enjoy it to the full, and don't waste a second. Again, congrats.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from rudyglove27 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

congratulations and your life is about to change for good...Nature walks and outdoor experiences. One of my favorite things to do with my son is go for nature walks. You can even do this in a local park — you don’t have to get out of town. Talk about trees and rocks, bushes and flowers, and see if you can spot wildlife. Many towns also have nature centers. You can check for planned nature walks, as well as day camps aimed at children. As a family, you can go camping, take day trips to picnic areas, go hiking or biking, or even visit the lake (or the ocean). Spending time outdoors is a great way to connect with your child — it’s one of the best family summer time activities!!!

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from PAShooter wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Always make it a positive experience. When my son shot all the pumpkins in my pumpkin patch with his bow at age 3 1/2. I didn't discipline him, but knew he became bored with a target on hay bales. So, I set up his own safe 3-D course around the yard. Later at age 12, he qualified and successfully competed in national compitions. Today, he is 25 and we hunt together whenever we can. My friend has a son who he would be tough on any time he made a mistake while hunting (father's opinion). Well, today his son is 30 and is turned off to hunting. Be encouraging, patient, and provide plenty of experience. Congratulations!

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from rudyglove27 wrote 1 year 48 weeks ago

Youth programs. I was a happily involved in 4-H growing up. There are a number of programs available for children ages 5 and up (younger children, ages 5-8, are actually Cloverbuds). Children meet in clubs and complete projects. My favorite projects included rocketry, geology, forestry and money management. And for older kids, there are conferences, retreats and activities. Other youth programs, such as Boys & Girls Clubs, YMCA, Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts also offer low-cost, fun opportunities for kids of various ages and interests. And they’ll learn something, too!!!

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