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The Life Ahead: C.J. Chivers Teaches His Children to Fish

During an extended stay in Finland, the author takes two of his sons fishing to kill time. When they discover an unexpected treasure—an endless run of yellow perch—Dad sees a golden opportunity to teach his boys their first lessons of their fishing lives.
Photo by Suzanne Keating

Life Lessons, With Fork and Knife

At home I opened the basket's door and let a load of perch, perhaps two dozen in all, slide into the sink. Jack and Mick pulled up chairs and climbed up to watch. The sound of a knife being run across a sharpening stone filled the air. My daughter, Elizabeth, came running; she wanted to see, too. She was just past 2 years old and did not yet have the patience or swimming skills to spend long hours on the docks. But she was drawn to the creatures her brothers brought home. "Give me one," she called out. "Boys!"

We are meticulous with fish in our house, and I transferred most of the whole perch into the freezer before I cleaned them, to keep them cool until it was their turn.

I took a larger, thicker fish from the sink-a perch Mick had jigged up-and rested it on the board. Then I slipped the knife in, following the skeletal contours from head to tail. One fillet, grayish-white and with a tracery of fine black lines, was clear. I flipped the fish and removed the meat from the other side.

The pile of fish shrunk and the pile of meat grew. For all the perch's many qualities as an instructional fish, they have another value as well: They are delicious. A basket of cold perch is a natural treat on the order of a basket of peaches still warm from the tree. When we finished with the knife, I took a stack of chilled fillets, dipped them in egg and beer, and rolled them in seasoned flour. The boys pushed the chairs to the stove and watched the muscles that had powered their quarry around the docks sizzle and brown in a skillet of hot olive oil. Then we sat with a mound of small fillets, each one brilliant white and warm inside, feasting with green salad and tall glasses of milk. Their pride was self-evident. The boys were feeding us.

"Mama," Jack said. "We caught these."

"Yes, Jack," Suzanne said. "And you will catch many more."

The Old Student

I marveled at their progress. Once Willie's passport arrived at the embassy in Helsinki, I returned to Russia for work and to pick up our son's visa. When I turned up in Finland again in August, the boys wanted to fish.

They had come a long way in a few weeks. One afternoon on the dock, as Mick and I headed to the comfort station, I looked back and saw Jack, who was watching the rods alone, dash left, bend, pick up a rod, and swing back.

When we returned, he stood quietly, tending our three rods, staring at three bobbers. I pretended not to know. "How's it going?" I asked.

"I caught a fish," he said.

"Really?" I said. "What kind?"

"A perch. It's in the basket."

"Where's your line?"

"I put a worm on and put it back."

His bobber floated 30 feet from the dock.

The lessons had stuck. Jack was already a fisherman. He had caught a fish, unhooked it, lifted the heavy wire fish basket from the water, hand over hand with the rope, and put in his catch-by himself. Then he rebaited and cast the line back. There were things in that sequence I had not yet taught him.

That night, after the last fillets were put up, the fishing tackle stowed, and the boys had showered and gone to bed, I sat in the kitchen, sipping a beer. It was about 11 P.M. Jack padded into the room in his pajamas, carrying a spool of 6-pound-test. He had twisted its tag end into kinks. He had watched me tying clinch knots, Uni knots, and the Palomar. He handed me the spool, determination on his face. He wanted to know how. "Can I have a knot-tying class?" he said.

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from streack wrote 30 weeks 3 days ago

Mr. Chivers,

That was an excellent story, you made many memmories that will be talked about forever between you and your sons.

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from 2Poppa wrote 30 weeks 2 days ago

I just read that excellent story a couple of weeks ago , but I forgot where.

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from rserwe44 wrote 29 weeks 5 days ago

Great article, i enjoyed alot

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from 007 wrote 28 weeks 3 days ago

A wise gentleman told me when my son was born to "take your kids hunting (or fishing) and you won't have to hunt for your kids." My kids are my favorite hunting and fishing companions today. Well done, Mr. Chivers.

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from sledneck7 wrote 28 weeks 22 hours ago

I remember when I first went fishing with my dad. On the second attempt to cast, my hook and worm fell three feet in front of me. I was so mad, I was about to throw the rod in the water, when all of the sudden a bluegill took the bait and went off with the hook in his mouth. I quicly reeled in to succesfuly catch my first fish.

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from sledneck7 wrote 28 weeks 22 hours ago

I remember when I first went fishing with my dad. On the second attempt to cast, my hook and worm fell three feet in front of me. I was so mad, I was about to throw the rod in the water, when all of the sudden a bluegill took the bait and went off with the hook in his mouth. I quicly reeled in to succesfuly catch my first fish.

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from streack wrote 30 weeks 3 days ago

Mr. Chivers,

That was an excellent story, you made many memmories that will be talked about forever between you and your sons.

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from 2Poppa wrote 30 weeks 2 days ago

I just read that excellent story a couple of weeks ago , but I forgot where.

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from rserwe44 wrote 29 weeks 5 days ago

Great article, i enjoyed alot

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from 007 wrote 28 weeks 3 days ago

A wise gentleman told me when my son was born to "take your kids hunting (or fishing) and you won't have to hunt for your kids." My kids are my favorite hunting and fishing companions today. Well done, Mr. Chivers.

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