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February 24, 2009

On Honeymoons, Flyfishing Addiction, and Being a Dirty Dog

By Kirk Deeter

Photo by Roy Tanami

I must hand it to Tim Romano... if Guinness tracked a world record for the most fishing trips taken between a wedding and a honeymoon, he'd surely own it.

Not that many of us haven't tried to lay down the law on fishing-as-priority early in our marriages.  I once suggested Alaska as a honeymoon to my wife.  Sitting on the beach weeks later, I wondered how long it would be before I saw the Far North.  Fourteen years, it turned out.

Tim was married last September 20 (within hours of taking his vows, he was bass fishing on a pond in his wedding suit... I heard that through the grapevine, having definitely not been an instigator of such folly).  Soon after, he went on an overnight float down the Colorado River.  In October, he snaked a trip to the Damdochax in B.C. for steelhead (that was work... see the amazing photo essay)...  Then he did a bit of North Carolina mountain fishing.  Perhaps most impressively, he snuck an 8-day junket to the Louisiana Bayou, with none other than Gregg Arnold, Roy Tanami, and the Holeman brothers for a party with the "swamp donkey" in January.  March will see at least one Roaring Fork float.  April... smallmouth bass on the Devil's River in Texas (he's still in negotiations).  May... a carp fishing weekend on an anonymous lake in Colorado.  And then, in June... he's thinking about going on his honeymoon!

When he asked for advice on where to go on this delayed honeymoon (meaning, he wanted to know where the fishing would be good in June), I didn't know whether to hug him or give him a wedgie.  On the one hand he is a stalwart... an icon of all things manly and good... a guy who wears the "fish bum" label with such pride and aplomb, my Adam's apple wobbles with envy as I type these words.  On the other hand... he makes the rest of us look like pithy milk-sops.  Who ultimately earns highest praise?  No doubt, his beautiful and supremely patient wife, Ellie.

So, A) I'm wondering if Fly Talkers consider Tim hero or zero...  And B) I'm thinking we need to come up with honeymoon recommendations...

How about mushroom picking?  Mud baths and spa treatments?  After all, there are, um, other things to do on a honeymoon, other than fish...

Or do we tell him what the marlin bite off the East Cape of Baja is really like that time of year?  What's a killer his-and-her June honeymoon, fishing included?

Deeter

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from karmano wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Boy do I have some advice for you. Not only did I get married at a fishing lodge in northern Montana, I am finally taking a honeymoon (almost 4 years later) to Mango Creek Lodge for a week of flats fishing in May! Tim, if your wife is into a beautiful location with great cutthroat fishing check out Spotted Bear Ranch just south of Glacier National Park. They do wilderness floats or day trips from the ranch. Or check out Mango Creek Lodge on Roatan island off the coast of Honduras. I can hardly wait to get there and fish for 6 days and have all my meals and beverages included. Ideal honeymoon spot with low key, laid back lifestyle for one week. Also, if you are floating here next month, you had best call me. I would be more than happy to fish with you.

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from curmudgeon wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I'd vote for a return trip to the mountains of North Carolina.

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from Mike Kaptur wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Wow, Tim and I should fish together sometime.

Not only was I also married on 9/20/08, but the week before and the week after were also the best two weeks fly fishing of my life. The week before, my dad, brother, two uncles and future father in law left the ladies to worry about the wedding and spent 4 days on the east fork of notell crick in the Bob Marshall. We caught hundreds of cutties averaging about 16 inches, with the top catch taping out at a very thick 21. About an hour later and a mile or so downstream I caught the fish of my lifetime, a 35inch bull that was a true freak of nature.

We got married on Seeley Lake and I caught a 29 inch pike within 30 minutes of saying I do while on a "romantic" canoe ride.

Two days later (1 on the Blackfoot and 1 on the Bitterroot), we were off to Telluride for 6 days. Here I had constant action up top from 10-16 inch bows. I managed to catch fish every day of the honeymoon and do enough else to keep the wife happy.

Like you say Deeter, the real hero here is my smokin hot wife who lets me get away with it all.

I'll send the proof pics to Deeter, feel free to post em if you want... but no Kentucky Waterfalls are included.

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from Mike Kaptur wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Ok how do I send the pics?

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from Evan V wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Western Maryland. Theres the Hagerstown outlets not 1 1/2 hour from the savage river and the farthest west point(which means other rivers), so you're within range.

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from timromano wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

mike,

I think you might have me beat. Nicely done.

Tim

ps you can post pics here http://www.fieldandstream.com/node/add/upload-trophy-room

copy us on the link in this post when you do.

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from MLH wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Mike, does your wife have a single sister? Mother? I am so jealous. Same goes for Tim, too.

Honeymoon in June? Take a look at Mackinac Island and Traverse City. On second thought, if late in the month, there might be an after dark Hex hatch a few miles south ... she might get upset if he's out on the river all night, every night. Last time I took a girlfriend I had to swing for two nights on Mackinac for one night at the fishing lodge.

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from buckhunter wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Great story but if the truth is to be known the important question is how the wife will handle fishing between years 2-50. I'm at year 23 and she still lets me go fishing when ever I want. She's still a hottie too!

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from Sportsman Matt wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I would say to talk to the wife, have her make suggestions, because if you don't, she'll be unhappy, and if she's unhappy, you'll definately be unhappy.

Don't believe me, just ask my Ex-wife. ;P

You could get a cabin at Lopstick in Pittsburg NH, right at the start of the Connecticut River, above the White Mountains, and not far from Canada, or Maine.

Another option for after the honeymoon, would be to take separate vacations every now and then. I did it the last couple years, and this year I'm living the trout bum dream, while the girlfriend goes to Florida, May in New England, hitting the Berkshires, then the Battenkill in Vermont, then the Millers and Deerfield Rivers, then the First Connecticut Lakes, then Maine, then ending it with some good old Salt Water fishing.

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from Roy Tanami wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

No real honeymoon advice here, but as you suggested, I think its time Timmy did whatever Ellie wants. Personally, I’m hopin that that means his honeymoon will include the mud baths, spa treatments and some hardcore clothes shopping. An added bonus like a fashion show would be sweet too. A play one night (preferably a musical), the ballet, or trip to the Opera would just rock.

Suggesting fishing honeymoons is just playing into his hands….

Finally, to set the record straight, unless you consider non stop fishing and drinking copious amounts of bourbon “work,” then I wouldn’t want any Flytalkers to be mislead about the amount of work Tim did at Damdochax – or in NOLA for that matter. He did make amazing photos in both places, that’s true, but he is, well, talented. Timbo and I have traveled the world “working” like this, so I know his MO. You’re busted dude.

Yup, for that and other reasons, he’s my hero for sure, but he does not need to fish on his honeymoon…unless she wants, of course….:) Buena suerte amigo!

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from Mike Kaptur wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Bull Trout: http://www.fieldandstream.com/photos/trophyroom/recent/single?bonnier_photos_maintype=34|20501&filter0=34&filter1=**ALL**&filter2=**ALL**&page=0

You've all seen 21 inch cutties before...

Tim you still have me beat with the variety and the travel.

If I could go anywhere on a second honeymoon/fishing trip it would be Costa Rica or somewhere else on the Central American Coast for Mahi and Marlin on the fly.

I think the wife might be ready for the tropical paradise version of fly fishing too.

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from Wags wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

First...DIRTY DOG!!!!! Actually, I shouldn't say anything. I didn't fish on my honeymoon, but my 1 year anniversary was a camping trip on the Platte in Michigan and then a trip to Ireland where I was able to fly fish for a couple of days.

Now that I am old(er) with 3 active children I find myself agreeing with Roy. The young buck ought to have to go off to some spa with gratuitous amounts of yoga, aroma therapy, and inner self assessment. Lots of romantic comedies and the occassional period piece (I'm thinking "PS I love you" and "Pride and Prejudice").

Of course, if this honeymoon is in late June, that Hex hatch in Michigan can be absolutely slammin'....You can fish the afterdark hatch, be in by say, 1:30 - 2:00 am, then hit the quaint tourist towns during the day with lovely.....

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from YooperRyan wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

TR, you are one lucky SOB. I was going to post that very sentiment regarding the BC steelhead trip (nice work) but saved it in the name of good taste. On this one though, I just don't see how I could not. She must be a special lady.

God forbid things should turn sour between you two love birds, but in the event they do, do you suppose you could be a pal and relay that information to the rest of us? I know that my calling on her in the event of such an unfortunate circumstance is normally in direct violation of man code, but I'm pretty sure if you read on there's an article in there allowing exception in the event such liberal attitude toward fishing enters the equation. That's right buddies, she'd be fair game. Look it up.

But hey, let's hope it never happens, forget I even mentioned it. As for honeymoon recommendations, I here Detroit is lovely in June.

Okay, Okay, in all seriousness, you should take her to some B&B near the Apostle Islands in northern Wisconsin on Lake Superior, not only is this romantic, but is also strategically adjacent to Chequamegon Bay which in June is smallie central. And you can even pack light, all you'll need is a 6-7 wt and a handful of clousers.

You're welcome,

Your favorite Yooper

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from timromano wrote 3 years 12 weeks ago

watch it Ryan...

Smallies? Wisconsin? Packing light. I'm sold. Love that state.

Not so sure I could convince her though. I have a feeling she's imagining a beach and frosty rum drinks.

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from timromano wrote 3 years 12 weeks ago

mike,

holy crap! Just checked out that Bull. That thing has a head the size of a black lab. Good god. I think I would have been scared picking it up.

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from Roy Tanami wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

No real honeymoon advice here, but as you suggested, I think its time Timmy did whatever Ellie wants. Personally, I’m hopin that that means his honeymoon will include the mud baths, spa treatments and some hardcore clothes shopping. An added bonus like a fashion show would be sweet too. A play one night (preferably a musical), the ballet, or trip to the Opera would just rock.

Suggesting fishing honeymoons is just playing into his hands….

Finally, to set the record straight, unless you consider non stop fishing and drinking copious amounts of bourbon “work,” then I wouldn’t want any Flytalkers to be mislead about the amount of work Tim did at Damdochax – or in NOLA for that matter. He did make amazing photos in both places, that’s true, but he is, well, talented. Timbo and I have traveled the world “working” like this, so I know his MO. You’re busted dude.

Yup, for that and other reasons, he’s my hero for sure, but he does not need to fish on his honeymoon…unless she wants, of course….:) Buena suerte amigo!

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from Wags wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

First...DIRTY DOG!!!!! Actually, I shouldn't say anything. I didn't fish on my honeymoon, but my 1 year anniversary was a camping trip on the Platte in Michigan and then a trip to Ireland where I was able to fly fish for a couple of days.

Now that I am old(er) with 3 active children I find myself agreeing with Roy. The young buck ought to have to go off to some spa with gratuitous amounts of yoga, aroma therapy, and inner self assessment. Lots of romantic comedies and the occassional period piece (I'm thinking "PS I love you" and "Pride and Prejudice").

Of course, if this honeymoon is in late June, that Hex hatch in Michigan can be absolutely slammin'....You can fish the afterdark hatch, be in by say, 1:30 - 2:00 am, then hit the quaint tourist towns during the day with lovely.....

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from karmano wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Boy do I have some advice for you. Not only did I get married at a fishing lodge in northern Montana, I am finally taking a honeymoon (almost 4 years later) to Mango Creek Lodge for a week of flats fishing in May! Tim, if your wife is into a beautiful location with great cutthroat fishing check out Spotted Bear Ranch just south of Glacier National Park. They do wilderness floats or day trips from the ranch. Or check out Mango Creek Lodge on Roatan island off the coast of Honduras. I can hardly wait to get there and fish for 6 days and have all my meals and beverages included. Ideal honeymoon spot with low key, laid back lifestyle for one week. Also, if you are floating here next month, you had best call me. I would be more than happy to fish with you.

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from curmudgeon wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I'd vote for a return trip to the mountains of North Carolina.

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from Mike Kaptur wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Wow, Tim and I should fish together sometime.

Not only was I also married on 9/20/08, but the week before and the week after were also the best two weeks fly fishing of my life. The week before, my dad, brother, two uncles and future father in law left the ladies to worry about the wedding and spent 4 days on the east fork of notell crick in the Bob Marshall. We caught hundreds of cutties averaging about 16 inches, with the top catch taping out at a very thick 21. About an hour later and a mile or so downstream I caught the fish of my lifetime, a 35inch bull that was a true freak of nature.

We got married on Seeley Lake and I caught a 29 inch pike within 30 minutes of saying I do while on a "romantic" canoe ride.

Two days later (1 on the Blackfoot and 1 on the Bitterroot), we were off to Telluride for 6 days. Here I had constant action up top from 10-16 inch bows. I managed to catch fish every day of the honeymoon and do enough else to keep the wife happy.

Like you say Deeter, the real hero here is my smokin hot wife who lets me get away with it all.

I'll send the proof pics to Deeter, feel free to post em if you want... but no Kentucky Waterfalls are included.

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from Mike Kaptur wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Ok how do I send the pics?

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from Evan V wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Western Maryland. Theres the Hagerstown outlets not 1 1/2 hour from the savage river and the farthest west point(which means other rivers), so you're within range.

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from timromano wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

mike,

I think you might have me beat. Nicely done.

Tim

ps you can post pics here http://www.fieldandstream.com/node/add/upload-trophy-room

copy us on the link in this post when you do.

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from MLH wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Mike, does your wife have a single sister? Mother? I am so jealous. Same goes for Tim, too.

Honeymoon in June? Take a look at Mackinac Island and Traverse City. On second thought, if late in the month, there might be an after dark Hex hatch a few miles south ... she might get upset if he's out on the river all night, every night. Last time I took a girlfriend I had to swing for two nights on Mackinac for one night at the fishing lodge.

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from buckhunter wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Great story but if the truth is to be known the important question is how the wife will handle fishing between years 2-50. I'm at year 23 and she still lets me go fishing when ever I want. She's still a hottie too!

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from Sportsman Matt wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I would say to talk to the wife, have her make suggestions, because if you don't, she'll be unhappy, and if she's unhappy, you'll definately be unhappy.

Don't believe me, just ask my Ex-wife. ;P

You could get a cabin at Lopstick in Pittsburg NH, right at the start of the Connecticut River, above the White Mountains, and not far from Canada, or Maine.

Another option for after the honeymoon, would be to take separate vacations every now and then. I did it the last couple years, and this year I'm living the trout bum dream, while the girlfriend goes to Florida, May in New England, hitting the Berkshires, then the Battenkill in Vermont, then the Millers and Deerfield Rivers, then the First Connecticut Lakes, then Maine, then ending it with some good old Salt Water fishing.

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from Mike Kaptur wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Bull Trout: http://www.fieldandstream.com/photos/trophyroom/recent/single?bonnier_photos_maintype=34|20501&filter0=34&filter1=**ALL**&filter2=**ALL**&page=0

You've all seen 21 inch cutties before...

Tim you still have me beat with the variety and the travel.

If I could go anywhere on a second honeymoon/fishing trip it would be Costa Rica or somewhere else on the Central American Coast for Mahi and Marlin on the fly.

I think the wife might be ready for the tropical paradise version of fly fishing too.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from YooperRyan wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

TR, you are one lucky SOB. I was going to post that very sentiment regarding the BC steelhead trip (nice work) but saved it in the name of good taste. On this one though, I just don't see how I could not. She must be a special lady.

God forbid things should turn sour between you two love birds, but in the event they do, do you suppose you could be a pal and relay that information to the rest of us? I know that my calling on her in the event of such an unfortunate circumstance is normally in direct violation of man code, but I'm pretty sure if you read on there's an article in there allowing exception in the event such liberal attitude toward fishing enters the equation. That's right buddies, she'd be fair game. Look it up.

But hey, let's hope it never happens, forget I even mentioned it. As for honeymoon recommendations, I here Detroit is lovely in June.

Okay, Okay, in all seriousness, you should take her to some B&B near the Apostle Islands in northern Wisconsin on Lake Superior, not only is this romantic, but is also strategically adjacent to Chequamegon Bay which in June is smallie central. And you can even pack light, all you'll need is a 6-7 wt and a handful of clousers.

You're welcome,

Your favorite Yooper

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from timromano wrote 3 years 12 weeks ago

watch it Ryan...

Smallies? Wisconsin? Packing light. I'm sold. Love that state.

Not so sure I could convince her though. I have a feeling she's imagining a beach and frosty rum drinks.

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from timromano wrote 3 years 12 weeks ago

mike,

holy crap! Just checked out that Bull. That thing has a head the size of a black lab. Good god. I think I would have been scared picking it up.

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