


August 03, 2009
Bourjaily: Canadian Hospitality
By Philip Bourjaily

When you hunt the prairie provinces of Canada, you go back in time to what the Midwest must have been like in the 50s: a land full of birds and welcoming, hunter-friendly farmers.
A few years ago I joined a big group of writers on a waterfowl/upland hunt hosted by D.U. Canada in southern Manitoba. Mornings, we shot ducks in potholes or geese in fields. Afternoons, we hunted sharptails, caravanning around in three or four vehicles from field to field. Late the first afternoon I got turned around and was the last one back to the meeting place, only to find the rest of the party had miscounted heads, piled into the trucks and driven off without me to hunt the next spot. This was back before everyone had cell phones. All I could do was wait for them to realize I was missing. They never did.
The bed and breakfast where we were staying was two hours away. There was nothing to do but hike down the road, gun broken over my shoulder, until I came to a farmhouse. I explained to the woman who answered the door what had happened.
Confronted by an armed stranger, she said, without an instant’s hesitation: “Get in the pickup, we’ll go find your friends.” We drove the sections, looking, but my group was long gone. We stopped to pick her husband up off the combine and she radioed home to her daughter: “Becky, set another place. We’ve got a hungry American staying for dinner.”
Back at the house I learned that:
Becky looked like the farmer’s daughter of farmer’s daughter joke fame.
Her parents owned 1600 acres of prime sharptail ground.
They also owned plenty of Molson Ale.
There was a bed in the basement I was welcome to if no one came back for me.
After a Molson or two my first, fleeting thought was to phone my wife in Iowa and say “Honey, ship the dog to Manitoba. I’ll be home at the end of sharptail season,” but I called the B&B instead, where they relayed my message to rest of the party when they pulled in:
“Some guy named Phil called. He says you left him behind.”
They came back for me late that night, falling all over themselves to apologize. I was just finishing my coffee, pie and ice cream and, to be honest, I was kind of sorry they found me.
Comments (38)
I loved canadians so much, I married one!
Nothing like common sense people and good hospitality! Too bad you were married Phil!
Darn, I was hoping your were leading up to a Farmer's Daughter story. There probably is one, just can't print it!! LOL
I've been hunting and fishing Canada for years. Good folk. All of them.
I have been privleged to know many Canadiens. Good folks all.
Good story. i suppose ther was a time and place like that here in the U.S.A. too, though i'm not sure you'll find it today.
Wow, now i know where my next hunting trip is.
Good story! I bet you still have that family on your Christmas card list.
Hey KingFisher,
I went the same way you did! Best thing that ever happened to me!
Alberta knows how to raise 'em!
Never hunted in Canada, but I met some mighty fine folks in rural Iowa when I hunted pheasants there.
.88 mag: ditto on that...my wife hails from calgary...
GUYS: canadian girls are the best kept secret in the world...
Canada's nice, but you can go to many countries, and if you act well-mannered, be treated like family.
Many of these better than most Americans will treat you, I am sorry to say. I've been shown hospitality and assistance from Germans and Japanese that I couldn't find in New Jersey.
What a wonderful story about decent, caring, real people. Don't forget that they make great whiskey also. These folks are far different from the gangs and hoodies you might encounter in our American cities where you probably would have needed your birdgun or maybe just vanished forever.
I got that kind of welcome in Australia back in '75. You wouldn't believe all the pretty girls in Sydney,
glad to hear there are still trusting kind hearted folks out there. but bet if you made a pass at the daughter you would have been out on your ass.
candians are okay though i used to not really like em but hey any people are better than people from new jersy, i went there foe two days and i got to tell you it changes people in a bad way, its pretty erie
I'm jealous, combo waterfowl/upland bird hunt is my dream. Good story.
Most folks that don't hunt will never have a great story like this.
Nice story. It reminds me of the country folk in North Dakota I met. Most never locked their doors, left the keys in the truck, and left the car running on cold winter days outside the market if running in for just a minute!
I miss them days in the country!
I was feelin' you Phil!
When you mentioned that you walked up to a strangers door, with your shotgun over your shoulder, a strange hesitant,undecided and doubtful feelin' comes over one.
But the feelin' soon moves out, as it is replaced with another feelin' of HELP Me Somebody!
That happened to me a couple of turkey seasons ago,and like you, I met the nicest people,that gave me permission to hunt deer on their property.
Great story!
NO NO NO! Come on Phil, there are certain treasures we must not spoil by sharing.
Now for those of you thinking of trying this awesome bird hunting paradise - please remember the terrible things about hunting in Canada:
- those commies have a gun registry!!
- to bring your gun you actually have to fill out a form and pay $25!!!
It's definitely not worth it!! Please stay home and hunt the last couple of ducks and pheasants on whatever public land is near your home.
And if I happen to see any of you up there, I'll buy you a Kokanee or Molson to toast the limits we took and great people we've met!!
Sounds one hell of an experience... one of those things that even if you could go back and change it, you wouldn't. So i guess it kind of worked out that they left you out in the field.
The hospitality sounds a lot like the West Virginia that I grew up in.
Thirty-five years ago I hunted on a huge West Texas ranch for pronghorn antelope. I went by myself and booked a room in Ozona,46 miles from the ranch. (the ranch headquarters was 15 miles off the nearest paved road) The ranch manager's wife inquired about my camping gear,and I told her where I was staying. She was horrified that I was going to drive that far and informed me I was staying with them for my hunt. They put me up, fed me, and gave me a tour of the ranch looking at antelope, deer, javelina, thousands of quail and a lot of rattlesnakes. It was the first time they had an antelope hunt on that 350 section ranch, and I went back several more times. Living on the coast, I would take them 3 ice chests of fresh gulf shrimp, flounder, and red snapper. You would have thought I was giving them ice chests full of gold. True Texas hospitality. Those hunts will always be in my memories.
Michael
Phil that sounds like a dream I once had. Sadly Canada was not so friendly last August when I drove there for a Salmon fishing trip to The George River. Despite NOT having guns and showing all the outfitters paperwork and invitation, I was subjected to a top to bottom car search. Not a lot of explanation about why and they were polite. A waste of an hour and not a happy memory. Other guests who brought guns via air had no such intrusions.
All the Canadians I have met have been real nice people. If you set up camp next to a group of Canadians you were in for a great party. They would invite everyone over. But that is true of all country folk. North or South of the border.
Except the French in Quebec. But then they do not consider them self's part of Canada anyway.
Skeetrider; No doubt you were subjected to a search by customs, and these people are NOT typical of most Canadians. They are just part of the faceless government zombies and jerks that we all seem to have to put up with these days. Neither of our governments are our friends! I have spent lots of weeks and months in Quebec and have a cabin there. Quebec folks are just as nice as all the rest and I have always felt welcome. I LOVE all of Canada and wish that I lived there. A huge portion of my extensive hunting and fishing life has been spent in almost all of the provinces, and I have had countless experiences similar to the writers. I could go on and on, but we are are unbelievably fortunate to have these people as our neighbors. There is no other relationship like it on earth.
Tom
Posted by Jeff4066
"I've been shown hospitality and assistance from Germans and Japanese that I couldn't find in New Jersey."
Well, there's the problem, you are in NJ!
Get out while you still can! Only place worse I know of is NYC!
I was born in and grew up in NJ, and was stuck there for 28 years before I could get out, best move I ever made. Only thing I miss is the Ocean, fishing, crabbing and such. Other than that PA is much better place to live and no regrets about moving! (just avoid the 3 big cities and you will do fine in PA)
Oh Canada... I agree, they are good people and have a different life style up there. I often think about moving there if I ever find myself set financially. Canada as stated is what the Midwest of the US was in the 50s, and unfortunately the US will be what Canada is now in a few years, if we don't wake up and clean up DC. From their loss of gun rights, to socialized medicine to only 4 large banks to the largest middle class state in the world, take a good look at Canada now, you'll see our future.
I had a great time, driving the ALCAN Highway when Miz Lois & I were on the way to AK in 94, We went up in September and the Motels were closing behind us for the winter. Got to Ft. Greely , and the next morning 6" of fresh snow on the ground! Gotta say I found the Canadians to be a friendly bunch. Even the Customs guys when they asked about guns, I told them I had 2 Shotguns and a rifle in the trunk, they did not insist on looking at them just looked at the Passport I have given them even though they did not ask and waived me through. On the other hand the U.S. Customs guy crossing into AK wanted to see them, AND the Passport GO "figger"!
In 1975 I accompanied several conservation leaders on an American Petroleum Institute-sponsored trip to Scotland to view the North Sea offshore drilling operation, prior to leases being given for similar exploration off the U.S. Atlantic coast. First stop was Heathrow Airport in London. While waiting for our connecting flight to Aberdeen, Scotland, the representative of the Sierra Club and I walked maybe 40 yards to a window where we could exchange our currency. He went first, and when I then did my transaction, I looked around and my group was gone, including the Sierra Club rep. I wasn't sure where we were supposed to be going or whom to turn to, but somehow I wound up in the comfortable offices of a travel service affiliated with BP Oil, pampered by two beautiful women. While I was taking a nap, they found out where I was supposed to be going, then got me on the plane, and I arrived at the original destination BEFORE the rest of the group. Yes, Canadians can be great hosts, but I'll never forget my British saviors.
Wow, a Canadian could almost get a fat head reading this. Since I am one, I appreciate the comments a lot in the context of both Jeff4066 and Ishawooa; there are great folks everywhere and that starts with being nice yourself. I suspect that Phil was "disarming" when he approached the door to the farm (sorry for the pun).
There's a lot less urban development in Canada-heck we only have 28 million people and about 70% of them live within 100 miles of the US border. Take the big population centers like Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver out of the equation and that's a lot of rural living...in other words, in sporting country. Glad to hear people love going there.
If you want a real rush try Caribou in Newfoundland! I believe its the world's largest herd, and those Newfies have everyone beat in terms of welcoming!
Thanks.
Yup purdy durn good whiskey ,. and the beer aint bad neither no how,...
Only been to one city up there,.. Toronto
Had trouble with that ,..
So darn many cuties (many it appears of French ectraction ) hard to not to run into stuff ,..trees
park benches ,.other people,.. yuk yuk.
Great story. You should tell more of them
SBW
Married a Canadian living on this side of the border. When that didn't take I crossed over thinking one that hadn't been "muricanized" might work out better. That was mistake number 2. Just wondering, Petzal, perhaps Canadian women with unmarried daughters might be more accomodating to men who arrive on their doorstep bearing in hand a major requirement for a shotgun wedding.
Similar experience minus the farmer's daughter. I was hunting whitetail does down in southern PA in unfamiliar section of state game lands and got turned around and couldn't find my companions truck. I found a road and followed it and knocked on the door of the first house I came to. A gentleman answered the door and listened as I explained that I was from out of the area and couldn't find the entrance to the game lands and asked if he could point me in the right direction. He immediately offered to drive me over and when we got there refused any kind of payment for the help. A true good samaritan.
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I just got back from a week in Canada and the staff, pilots, and city folk were excellent people. Everyone has excellent manners and time seems to tick a little slower up there.
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I loved canadians so much, I married one!
Nothing like common sense people and good hospitality! Too bad you were married Phil!
I have been privleged to know many Canadiens. Good folks all.
Hey KingFisher,
I went the same way you did! Best thing that ever happened to me!
Alberta knows how to raise 'em!
Canada's nice, but you can go to many countries, and if you act well-mannered, be treated like family.
Many of these better than most Americans will treat you, I am sorry to say. I've been shown hospitality and assistance from Germans and Japanese that I couldn't find in New Jersey.
What a wonderful story about decent, caring, real people. Don't forget that they make great whiskey also. These folks are far different from the gangs and hoodies you might encounter in our American cities where you probably would have needed your birdgun or maybe just vanished forever.
I got that kind of welcome in Australia back in '75. You wouldn't believe all the pretty girls in Sydney,
Nice story. It reminds me of the country folk in North Dakota I met. Most never locked their doors, left the keys in the truck, and left the car running on cold winter days outside the market if running in for just a minute!
I miss them days in the country!
The hospitality sounds a lot like the West Virginia that I grew up in.
Oh Canada... I agree, they are good people and have a different life style up there. I often think about moving there if I ever find myself set financially. Canada as stated is what the Midwest of the US was in the 50s, and unfortunately the US will be what Canada is now in a few years, if we don't wake up and clean up DC. From their loss of gun rights, to socialized medicine to only 4 large banks to the largest middle class state in the world, take a good look at Canada now, you'll see our future.
In 1975 I accompanied several conservation leaders on an American Petroleum Institute-sponsored trip to Scotland to view the North Sea offshore drilling operation, prior to leases being given for similar exploration off the U.S. Atlantic coast. First stop was Heathrow Airport in London. While waiting for our connecting flight to Aberdeen, Scotland, the representative of the Sierra Club and I walked maybe 40 yards to a window where we could exchange our currency. He went first, and when I then did my transaction, I looked around and my group was gone, including the Sierra Club rep. I wasn't sure where we were supposed to be going or whom to turn to, but somehow I wound up in the comfortable offices of a travel service affiliated with BP Oil, pampered by two beautiful women. While I was taking a nap, they found out where I was supposed to be going, then got me on the plane, and I arrived at the original destination BEFORE the rest of the group. Yes, Canadians can be great hosts, but I'll never forget my British saviors.
Darn, I was hoping your were leading up to a Farmer's Daughter story. There probably is one, just can't print it!! LOL
I've been hunting and fishing Canada for years. Good folk. All of them.
Good story. i suppose ther was a time and place like that here in the U.S.A. too, though i'm not sure you'll find it today.
Wow, now i know where my next hunting trip is.
Good story! I bet you still have that family on your Christmas card list.
Never hunted in Canada, but I met some mighty fine folks in rural Iowa when I hunted pheasants there.
.88 mag: ditto on that...my wife hails from calgary...
GUYS: canadian girls are the best kept secret in the world...
glad to hear there are still trusting kind hearted folks out there. but bet if you made a pass at the daughter you would have been out on your ass.
candians are okay though i used to not really like em but hey any people are better than people from new jersy, i went there foe two days and i got to tell you it changes people in a bad way, its pretty erie
I'm jealous, combo waterfowl/upland bird hunt is my dream. Good story.
Most folks that don't hunt will never have a great story like this.
I was feelin' you Phil!
When you mentioned that you walked up to a strangers door, with your shotgun over your shoulder, a strange hesitant,undecided and doubtful feelin' comes over one.
But the feelin' soon moves out, as it is replaced with another feelin' of HELP Me Somebody!
That happened to me a couple of turkey seasons ago,and like you, I met the nicest people,that gave me permission to hunt deer on their property.
Great story!
NO NO NO! Come on Phil, there are certain treasures we must not spoil by sharing.
Now for those of you thinking of trying this awesome bird hunting paradise - please remember the terrible things about hunting in Canada:
- those commies have a gun registry!!
- to bring your gun you actually have to fill out a form and pay $25!!!
It's definitely not worth it!! Please stay home and hunt the last couple of ducks and pheasants on whatever public land is near your home.
And if I happen to see any of you up there, I'll buy you a Kokanee or Molson to toast the limits we took and great people we've met!!
Sounds one hell of an experience... one of those things that even if you could go back and change it, you wouldn't. So i guess it kind of worked out that they left you out in the field.
Thirty-five years ago I hunted on a huge West Texas ranch for pronghorn antelope. I went by myself and booked a room in Ozona,46 miles from the ranch. (the ranch headquarters was 15 miles off the nearest paved road) The ranch manager's wife inquired about my camping gear,and I told her where I was staying. She was horrified that I was going to drive that far and informed me I was staying with them for my hunt. They put me up, fed me, and gave me a tour of the ranch looking at antelope, deer, javelina, thousands of quail and a lot of rattlesnakes. It was the first time they had an antelope hunt on that 350 section ranch, and I went back several more times. Living on the coast, I would take them 3 ice chests of fresh gulf shrimp, flounder, and red snapper. You would have thought I was giving them ice chests full of gold. True Texas hospitality. Those hunts will always be in my memories.
Michael
Phil that sounds like a dream I once had. Sadly Canada was not so friendly last August when I drove there for a Salmon fishing trip to The George River. Despite NOT having guns and showing all the outfitters paperwork and invitation, I was subjected to a top to bottom car search. Not a lot of explanation about why and they were polite. A waste of an hour and not a happy memory. Other guests who brought guns via air had no such intrusions.
All the Canadians I have met have been real nice people. If you set up camp next to a group of Canadians you were in for a great party. They would invite everyone over. But that is true of all country folk. North or South of the border.
Except the French in Quebec. But then they do not consider them self's part of Canada anyway.
Skeetrider; No doubt you were subjected to a search by customs, and these people are NOT typical of most Canadians. They are just part of the faceless government zombies and jerks that we all seem to have to put up with these days. Neither of our governments are our friends! I have spent lots of weeks and months in Quebec and have a cabin there. Quebec folks are just as nice as all the rest and I have always felt welcome. I LOVE all of Canada and wish that I lived there. A huge portion of my extensive hunting and fishing life has been spent in almost all of the provinces, and I have had countless experiences similar to the writers. I could go on and on, but we are are unbelievably fortunate to have these people as our neighbors. There is no other relationship like it on earth.
Tom
Posted by Jeff4066
"I've been shown hospitality and assistance from Germans and Japanese that I couldn't find in New Jersey."
Well, there's the problem, you are in NJ!
Get out while you still can! Only place worse I know of is NYC!
I was born in and grew up in NJ, and was stuck there for 28 years before I could get out, best move I ever made. Only thing I miss is the Ocean, fishing, crabbing and such. Other than that PA is much better place to live and no regrets about moving! (just avoid the 3 big cities and you will do fine in PA)
I had a great time, driving the ALCAN Highway when Miz Lois & I were on the way to AK in 94, We went up in September and the Motels were closing behind us for the winter. Got to Ft. Greely , and the next morning 6" of fresh snow on the ground! Gotta say I found the Canadians to be a friendly bunch. Even the Customs guys when they asked about guns, I told them I had 2 Shotguns and a rifle in the trunk, they did not insist on looking at them just looked at the Passport I have given them even though they did not ask and waived me through. On the other hand the U.S. Customs guy crossing into AK wanted to see them, AND the Passport GO "figger"!
Wow, a Canadian could almost get a fat head reading this. Since I am one, I appreciate the comments a lot in the context of both Jeff4066 and Ishawooa; there are great folks everywhere and that starts with being nice yourself. I suspect that Phil was "disarming" when he approached the door to the farm (sorry for the pun).
There's a lot less urban development in Canada-heck we only have 28 million people and about 70% of them live within 100 miles of the US border. Take the big population centers like Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver out of the equation and that's a lot of rural living...in other words, in sporting country. Glad to hear people love going there.
If you want a real rush try Caribou in Newfoundland! I believe its the world's largest herd, and those Newfies have everyone beat in terms of welcoming!
Thanks.
Great story. You should tell more of them
SBW
Married a Canadian living on this side of the border. When that didn't take I crossed over thinking one that hadn't been "muricanized" might work out better. That was mistake number 2. Just wondering, Petzal, perhaps Canadian women with unmarried daughters might be more accomodating to men who arrive on their doorstep bearing in hand a major requirement for a shotgun wedding.
Similar experience minus the farmer's daughter. I was hunting whitetail does down in southern PA in unfamiliar section of state game lands and got turned around and couldn't find my companions truck. I found a road and followed it and knocked on the door of the first house I came to. A gentleman answered the door and listened as I explained that I was from out of the area and couldn't find the entrance to the game lands and asked if he could point me in the right direction. He immediately offered to drive me over and when we got there refused any kind of payment for the help. A true good samaritan.
I just got back from a week in Canada and the staff, pilots, and city folk were excellent people. Everyone has excellent manners and time seems to tick a little slower up there.
Yup purdy durn good whiskey ,. and the beer aint bad neither no how,...
Only been to one city up there,.. Toronto
Had trouble with that ,..
So darn many cuties (many it appears of French ectraction ) hard to not to run into stuff ,..trees
park benches ,.other people,.. yuk yuk.
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