I’m like a lot of hunting dads, I bet. I have access to a great piece of land, but there’s no overnight option. Neither fancy lodge nor bargain-basement shack. I have a great hunting spot. What I don’t have is a hunting camp.
So this year, I tried an experiment. Instead of whining about my lack of a Pennsylvania-styled deer camp, I’d make the most of what I did have. I found a nifty little mom-and-pop motel just a couple miles from my lease, locked down a couple of nights when the kids were out of school for teacher workdays, and laid plans for a do-it-yourself Daddy Deer Camp.
Hunting with your kids, especially when they are this young—my daughter, Markie, is 12; Jack is 9—is about so much more than pulling the trigger anyway. With soccer, swimming, and church activities blacking out so much of the calendar, I’ve learned you have to schedule times with your kids to guarantee that you’ll get it. At least, I do. So off we went to Daddy Deer Camp, where we learned that what you wind up with on a hunting trip may—or may not—be what you were after.
The plan was to take Markie down one afternoon, hunt the next morning, then trade her out for Jack at midday. (Thankfully, gas prices were dropping!) We checked in at Becky’s Log Cabin Motel, straight out of Leave It To Beaver. Clean as a whistle, enough room in a standard double to shoe a horse, the gray-haired lady at the front desk called Markie “sugar,” and the tab was $45 a night. This is what is still right with America.
Photo by T. Edward Nickens
When you can't bring your kids to a deer camp, try bringing the camp to them. Editor-at-Large T. Edward Nickens reports on the creation of a family tradition -- and how it's helping his son and daughter grow up to appreciate the outdoors.
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Very cool story!!!!!
this is the way hunting is supposed to be. Not always getting something to hang on the wall, but rather getting something to remember forever.
Awesome, after a couple years of my uncle taking me hunting, i've gotten much more serious, and my dad jumped on the chance to spend some time with me in the woods, i'm looking forward to our first hunt for turkeys this spring.
These are the type of stories I want to see more of...the author is following in the footsteps of one of the "greats" in outdoor writing...Gene Hill. As stated above, hunting is so much more than the bagging of game. I love the family aspect of outdoor activities. Please keep these types of stories coming.
thank you for stories like these. I have two kids and I find alot of hints in your stories.
like a lot of dads, i dreamed of the day when my kids would want to hunt. it came last fall. after completing their hunter ed classes we packed up up and headed for a campground in our local fish and wildlife area. our goal was to camp and hunt for the weekend of our state's youth hunt. we had an amazing time, and viewed numerous wildlife. there were open fire cooked meals and great campfire stories. we spent an hour with a six pointer grazing in front of us and never attempted a shot as only does are legal for the youth hunt. it was the weekend i'd dreamed of for nearly 14 years. thanks for reminding me about it, it was one of my best weekends ever!
Great story, and good parenting. I have great memories of time afield or on the stream with my dad. He is a tremendous outdoorsman, and i know now, a tremendous man. I look forward to doing the same things with my kids when they are old enough and just might find myself in a similar setting as your "Daddy Deer Camp", minus the lease probably. The lessons learned afield and the great friendships that thrive there are hugely important in my life. Can't wait for the kids to be part of that!
wow awesome story
Stories like this give me hope for our future.
Mine are two girls - 14 & 11, and a boy 9. As much as I like to hunt & fish, when I take them I selling the outdoors. My focus is on them having fun and getting to spend time with them. I took my 11 year old fishing last weekend and she caught 13 to my 4. There was no allowance for my taking her fish off or tying baits. She went around telling everyone how bad she beat me at fishing; and there is no way she enjoyed it more than I did.
Although my sons have grown up, I still remember their first hunting trip with me. My eldest is a No. 1 hunter and fisherman, the two younger ones like hunting but not as much as they like to fish (which is fine with me). I think raising kids to be active in the out of doors is and should be priority one in getting them to connect with their parents and out from in front of video games etc. Mine were active in Scouting which also helped. Keep up these stories. You can't go wrong with readers and maybe help non-hunters to understand that it isn't all about shooting something and about "trophies". Memories are the best trophies there are.
Great read! That is the best part of the hunting expearience. creating memories, building friendships, that's the part that lasts. the meat gets eaten. The trophys will collect dust. The memories live in our hearts forever. My Dad and Grandpa are both gone. The love for the outdoors they taught me still lives within me. I can tap into the moments we shared togeather as if they were yesterday. I try to pass that on to the kids in my life. Thanks for a great article.
Excellent write-up as always Eddie. Hunting with your dad is the best. Hunting with your kids is exceptional.
Really good story i just kept wanting to go to the next one to see what happened next!
Thanks, F&S for this subject. Our kids are not only the future of hunting and fishing in America, they are the "survival" of these two activities! I have flown my oldest grandson from southern CA to southwest New Hampshire to learn to hunt deer; he is in college now but it remains the highlight of his life. Now, on to grandson #2.
I don't have kids yet, but I'm taking notes! Thanks!
In the opening comments, there is a description of the mom and pop motel and the comment that "this is what is still right with america". I would say sir that what is still right with america is you and your family. The experiences you have and will create for your kids can not be measured. These kids will have a say in the future of our outdoor sports. I would say from what I see in the photo gallery, we will be in good hands. Happy hunting Markie and Jack !!
Great article! I don't have kids yet but look forward to doing this stuff with them in the future!
The story was cool
thats huntin as it should be!
There's nothing like teaching kids how to hunt and fish. My father taught me about the outdoors and how important it is to spend time with your children. I find myself very lucky to have a father like Edward Nickens.
I like to see dads taking their kids hunting
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These are the type of stories I want to see more of...the author is following in the footsteps of one of the "greats" in outdoor writing...Gene Hill. As stated above, hunting is so much more than the bagging of game. I love the family aspect of outdoor activities. Please keep these types of stories coming.
like a lot of dads, i dreamed of the day when my kids would want to hunt. it came last fall. after completing their hunter ed classes we packed up up and headed for a campground in our local fish and wildlife area. our goal was to camp and hunt for the weekend of our state's youth hunt. we had an amazing time, and viewed numerous wildlife. there were open fire cooked meals and great campfire stories. we spent an hour with a six pointer grazing in front of us and never attempted a shot as only does are legal for the youth hunt. it was the weekend i'd dreamed of for nearly 14 years. thanks for reminding me about it, it was one of my best weekends ever!
Very cool story!!!!!
thank you for stories like these. I have two kids and I find alot of hints in your stories.
Great story, and good parenting. I have great memories of time afield or on the stream with my dad. He is a tremendous outdoorsman, and i know now, a tremendous man. I look forward to doing the same things with my kids when they are old enough and just might find myself in a similar setting as your "Daddy Deer Camp", minus the lease probably. The lessons learned afield and the great friendships that thrive there are hugely important in my life. Can't wait for the kids to be part of that!
wow awesome story
Stories like this give me hope for our future.
Mine are two girls - 14 & 11, and a boy 9. As much as I like to hunt & fish, when I take them I selling the outdoors. My focus is on them having fun and getting to spend time with them. I took my 11 year old fishing last weekend and she caught 13 to my 4. There was no allowance for my taking her fish off or tying baits. She went around telling everyone how bad she beat me at fishing; and there is no way she enjoyed it more than I did.
Although my sons have grown up, I still remember their first hunting trip with me. My eldest is a No. 1 hunter and fisherman, the two younger ones like hunting but not as much as they like to fish (which is fine with me). I think raising kids to be active in the out of doors is and should be priority one in getting them to connect with their parents and out from in front of video games etc. Mine were active in Scouting which also helped. Keep up these stories. You can't go wrong with readers and maybe help non-hunters to understand that it isn't all about shooting something and about "trophies". Memories are the best trophies there are.
Great read! That is the best part of the hunting expearience. creating memories, building friendships, that's the part that lasts. the meat gets eaten. The trophys will collect dust. The memories live in our hearts forever. My Dad and Grandpa are both gone. The love for the outdoors they taught me still lives within me. I can tap into the moments we shared togeather as if they were yesterday. I try to pass that on to the kids in my life. Thanks for a great article.
Excellent write-up as always Eddie. Hunting with your dad is the best. Hunting with your kids is exceptional.
Really good story i just kept wanting to go to the next one to see what happened next!
I don't have kids yet, but I'm taking notes! Thanks!
In the opening comments, there is a description of the mom and pop motel and the comment that "this is what is still right with america". I would say sir that what is still right with america is you and your family. The experiences you have and will create for your kids can not be measured. These kids will have a say in the future of our outdoor sports. I would say from what I see in the photo gallery, we will be in good hands. Happy hunting Markie and Jack !!
There's nothing like teaching kids how to hunt and fish. My father taught me about the outdoors and how important it is to spend time with your children. I find myself very lucky to have a father like Edward Nickens.
this is the way hunting is supposed to be. Not always getting something to hang on the wall, but rather getting something to remember forever.
Awesome, after a couple years of my uncle taking me hunting, i've gotten much more serious, and my dad jumped on the chance to spend some time with me in the woods, i'm looking forward to our first hunt for turkeys this spring.
Thanks, F&S for this subject. Our kids are not only the future of hunting and fishing in America, they are the "survival" of these two activities! I have flown my oldest grandson from southern CA to southwest New Hampshire to learn to hunt deer; he is in college now but it remains the highlight of his life. Now, on to grandson #2.
Great article! I don't have kids yet but look forward to doing this stuff with them in the future!
The story was cool
thats huntin as it should be!
I like to see dads taking their kids hunting
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