You're not Bill Heavey. When you miss the one shot you get all season, you don't write about it and get fan mail and a check. Your friends and family look at you contemptuously. Your dog pees on your boots. Or vice versa. That's why I'm here. I am the Anti-Heavey, come to help you triumph this season. Click through the slides at left to learn how to connect in 10 difficult situations.