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how to get a a$$ hole step dad to like deer meat or at least to keep it

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from troutslayer wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

tell him it will cut down your grocery cost. and if he doesn't like the taste there are different ways to prepare that he might like. my grandma hates deer meat, but if i cook it in a crock pot with some seasoning for about 6-7 hours she LOVES it.

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from RackAttack68 wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

go to the store a nd get regular hamburger and mix a 1/2 pound of cow burger a 1/2 pound deer burger and hell never know the differnce

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from libertyfirst wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

Why doesn't he want you to keep the deer meat? Has he ever eaten it? Does he hunt? Give us a little more information.

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from KMB33 wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

Tell him to suck it up, become a man and start actually providing for his family and for a bout 200 dollars he could get 100 pounds of high quality meat for about 25 years every year, that is 25000 pounds of meat, and he would just have the cost of ammo and it would pay off in the short and long run.

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from huntcamp wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

You might not convince him to like it, it is his loss. No reason he should keep you from having it. Tell him venison is actually better for you than beef, it is leaner. Explain the effort of taking a deer compared to just walking down a grocery isle. Bring your mom into this. Just show them how important it is to you.

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from GiantWhitetails wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

tell him to get over it, man up, and eat some real mans food. the best food on this planet.

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from Del in KS wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

Is there a lot more to this than stepdad won't eat venison. What has he done for you to call him an ahole? Is he really that bad? Why not try to establish a relationship with stepdad. First be respectfull. The man puts a roof over your head does he not? Is he an anti-hunter? Explain the merits of hunting and eating venison as noted above.

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from Jim in Mo wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

dakohat14,
Del said it all, maybe it's you .

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from Kentucky Hunter wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

cook it in a pot untill it falls apart then put sweet baby rays bbq sauce in it fix him one tell him its pork bbq then after he has ate it a few days latter tell him it was deer meet it worked on my brother and now he cant wait for me to go huntting

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from Clay Cooper wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

A +1 for Del in KS!

I have one daughter, 2 stepdaughters and two stepsons. Out of the three girls, I get more respect out of my Redheaded Italian Blooded Stepdaughter than the other two put together. Cut your Stepfather some slack and treat him as if he is your father. Of course now days, what respect do kids have for their parents yet alone their elders anyhow!

A while back, I had a kid come up to me at a local High School and say, “I’M 18 YEARS OLD AND I’M A MAN!” and he still lived at home so go figure! O’did I wanted to take this boy to the gym and give him the the long overdue spanking his parents should have given him.

One more thing dakohta14 if you ever get the chance to hang out with me, you better change your attitude!

Just go ahead and cal me a a$$ hole step dad and my Redheaded Italian blooded Stepdaughter will kick the crap out of you!

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from Big O wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

+ 1 for Del here.

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from sterling wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

try the old fationed "It's steak!" then tell him what it is.

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from NYhunter wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

Your right Del + 1 for you!

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from idduckhntr wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

Del and clay are right, you need to establish a relationship with him even offer to take him hunting with you so he can see what it means to you if it was'nt for my stepdad I probly would have not got the chance to experiance hunting and the outdoors. By the way I'm 35 and if I called my stepdad an a@#hole he would still beat the crap out of me.

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from peter wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

make deeer cabasse or jerky, you cant hate that

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from Big C wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I agree with RackAttack...mix the two and I bet he never knows.

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from Elmer Fudd wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

does he throw it out? you seem to indicate that. Why would he do that?

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from jbird wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I'm not gonna' jump to conclusions and assume it's your fault kid. There's alot of a@@hole dads and step-dads out there. The fact that this guy has a kid interested in hunting and he's not willing to try venison, or let you keep it tells me the problem's probably w/him. Get your Mom in on this, explain to her how passionate you are about hunting, and enjoying the rewards of your harvest, then both of you talk to him. If he's still against it, then let him know a real man can kill his own dinner, and a real Dad supports his children's passions, especially when the passion is something as positive as hunting. Good luck, deer is a terrible thing to let go to waste.

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from rudyglove27 wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I totally agreed on GiantWhitetails comments. Tell him to man up and stop being a little girl.

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from mattreney wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

lol +1 for you clay
i dont have any advice to dealing with your step dad because my dad is into hunting but calling him an ahole is just going to get him mad and then you'll never get to have meat in his house

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from country road wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I doubt if telling him to "man up" is going to have a positive effect. I suspect that there's a lot more going on in the relationship than just a problem with deer meat. There has been some good advice given and a good place to start to improve things is to be polite to him and ask the same for yourself. Try to establish some mutual respect and consideration. You don't even have to like him, but things should improve if you are civil. Try to find one or two things you can agree on and build from there. (One of the proudest moments of my life was when my stepdaughter insisted that I be the one to walk her down the aisle and give her away.)

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from TonyK wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

Be nice to him and try, try again.

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from dakohta14 wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

a belive me this has throw me across an illa at walmart hit and pushed my mom and called her names and is an ex-fellin

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from country road wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

Dakohta14, my deepest concern for you and you mom. Are there any relatives nearby you can ask for help and support? How about a minister? You should seek out someone with some sort of ability to intervene on your behalf. I don't have a solution---just do the best you can.

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from hunter99 wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

loook up some of like the finest recipes or some sort of seasons that he likes and see how that goes or try it as hanburgers

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from JOHN ANDERSON wrote 19 weeks 1 day ago

IVE NEVER HEARD OF ANY ONE IN OUR CIRCLE TURNING DOWN HOMEMADE JERKY? IF HE DONT LIKE IT THE MORE FOR YOU.

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from Del in KS wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

Is there a lot more to this than stepdad won't eat venison. What has he done for you to call him an ahole? Is he really that bad? Why not try to establish a relationship with stepdad. First be respectfull. The man puts a roof over your head does he not? Is he an anti-hunter? Explain the merits of hunting and eating venison as noted above.

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from huntcamp wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

You might not convince him to like it, it is his loss. No reason he should keep you from having it. Tell him venison is actually better for you than beef, it is leaner. Explain the effort of taking a deer compared to just walking down a grocery isle. Bring your mom into this. Just show them how important it is to you.

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from country road wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I doubt if telling him to "man up" is going to have a positive effect. I suspect that there's a lot more going on in the relationship than just a problem with deer meat. There has been some good advice given and a good place to start to improve things is to be polite to him and ask the same for yourself. Try to establish some mutual respect and consideration. You don't even have to like him, but things should improve if you are civil. Try to find one or two things you can agree on and build from there. (One of the proudest moments of my life was when my stepdaughter insisted that I be the one to walk her down the aisle and give her away.)

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from RackAttack68 wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

go to the store a nd get regular hamburger and mix a 1/2 pound of cow burger a 1/2 pound deer burger and hell never know the differnce

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from idduckhntr wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

Del and clay are right, you need to establish a relationship with him even offer to take him hunting with you so he can see what it means to you if it was'nt for my stepdad I probly would have not got the chance to experiance hunting and the outdoors. By the way I'm 35 and if I called my stepdad an a@#hole he would still beat the crap out of me.

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from peter wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

make deeer cabasse or jerky, you cant hate that

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from Big C wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I agree with RackAttack...mix the two and I bet he never knows.

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from jbird wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I'm not gonna' jump to conclusions and assume it's your fault kid. There's alot of a@@hole dads and step-dads out there. The fact that this guy has a kid interested in hunting and he's not willing to try venison, or let you keep it tells me the problem's probably w/him. Get your Mom in on this, explain to her how passionate you are about hunting, and enjoying the rewards of your harvest, then both of you talk to him. If he's still against it, then let him know a real man can kill his own dinner, and a real Dad supports his children's passions, especially when the passion is something as positive as hunting. Good luck, deer is a terrible thing to let go to waste.

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from rudyglove27 wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

I totally agreed on GiantWhitetails comments. Tell him to man up and stop being a little girl.

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from TonyK wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

Be nice to him and try, try again.

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from troutslayer wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

tell him it will cut down your grocery cost. and if he doesn't like the taste there are different ways to prepare that he might like. my grandma hates deer meat, but if i cook it in a crock pot with some seasoning for about 6-7 hours she LOVES it.

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from libertyfirst wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

Why doesn't he want you to keep the deer meat? Has he ever eaten it? Does he hunt? Give us a little more information.

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from KMB33 wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

Tell him to suck it up, become a man and start actually providing for his family and for a bout 200 dollars he could get 100 pounds of high quality meat for about 25 years every year, that is 25000 pounds of meat, and he would just have the cost of ammo and it would pay off in the short and long run.

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from GiantWhitetails wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

tell him to get over it, man up, and eat some real mans food. the best food on this planet.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from Jim in Mo wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

dakohat14,
Del said it all, maybe it's you .

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from Kentucky Hunter wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

cook it in a pot untill it falls apart then put sweet baby rays bbq sauce in it fix him one tell him its pork bbq then after he has ate it a few days latter tell him it was deer meet it worked on my brother and now he cant wait for me to go huntting

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from Clay Cooper wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

A +1 for Del in KS!

I have one daughter, 2 stepdaughters and two stepsons. Out of the three girls, I get more respect out of my Redheaded Italian Blooded Stepdaughter than the other two put together. Cut your Stepfather some slack and treat him as if he is your father. Of course now days, what respect do kids have for their parents yet alone their elders anyhow!

A while back, I had a kid come up to me at a local High School and say, “I’M 18 YEARS OLD AND I’M A MAN!” and he still lived at home so go figure! O’did I wanted to take this boy to the gym and give him the the long overdue spanking his parents should have given him.

One more thing dakohta14 if you ever get the chance to hang out with me, you better change your attitude!

Just go ahead and cal me a a$$ hole step dad and my Redheaded Italian blooded Stepdaughter will kick the crap out of you!

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from Big O wrote 19 weeks 5 days ago

+ 1 for Del here.

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from sterling wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

try the old fationed "It's steak!" then tell him what it is.

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from NYhunter wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

Your right Del + 1 for you!

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from Elmer Fudd wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

does he throw it out? you seem to indicate that. Why would he do that?

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from mattreney wrote 19 weeks 4 days ago

lol +1 for you clay
i dont have any advice to dealing with your step dad because my dad is into hunting but calling him an ahole is just going to get him mad and then you'll never get to have meat in his house

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from dakohta14 wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

a belive me this has throw me across an illa at walmart hit and pushed my mom and called her names and is an ex-fellin

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from country road wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

Dakohta14, my deepest concern for you and you mom. Are there any relatives nearby you can ask for help and support? How about a minister? You should seek out someone with some sort of ability to intervene on your behalf. I don't have a solution---just do the best you can.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from hunter99 wrote 19 weeks 3 days ago

loook up some of like the finest recipes or some sort of seasons that he likes and see how that goes or try it as hanburgers

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from JOHN ANDERSON wrote 19 weeks 1 day ago

IVE NEVER HEARD OF ANY ONE IN OUR CIRCLE TURNING DOWN HOMEMADE JERKY? IF HE DONT LIKE IT THE MORE FOR YOU.

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