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I want to hunt, but my mom says that "killing helpless animals for fun is stupid". What can I tell her to persuade her otherwise?

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from the hunter wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

If you have cats tell her it's free catfood.

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from TonyK wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

First, you can tell her the animals are not helpless. They are living and thriving in the wild. Second, you can tell her you will help cut the food bill by shooting a deer or two. Meat is a big expense now a days and a venison helps out more than one would think.

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from huntcamp wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

It is all about education, no matter the age. Find a local fund raising dinner, Whitetails Unlimited or Ducks Unlimited, doesn't matter which, and try and get her to take you. So she can see first hand what the people are like and what hunting really is and what it does for the conservation of lands and game. Good luck on that one. Hope to see you in the field.

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from GiantWhitetails wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

tell her that hunting is critical to the survival of the natural world. there is nothing wrong with it and it benefits the wildlife more than anything. Animals survive better with less competition. overpopulation leads to unhealthy wildlife and eventually starvation. so hunting controls populations allowing for animals to thrive with abundant resources. And overall its a great experience and will make you a better human being.

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from hunterkid94 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

ask her if she would rather have a child that is a hunter, or one who has no hobby and gets into gangs and stuff

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from power hunter wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell your mother that its not the kill, its the thrill of the chase. Or tell her that its better than getting into trouble else where.

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from Elmer Fudd wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

You are probably never going to convince her. However, if you are old enough to hunt you are going to have to let her know you really want to go hunting whether she approves of it or not. Convince her of the measures you are taking to be safe; secretly, this may be her real concern.

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from libertyfirst wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

There are some excellent postings here with good advise on how to deal with your mother. Education about wildlife and how hunting is the best of the management tools is the best approach. Try to explain to her that hunting is an activity that you want to pursue. Search the local library for information that puts hunting in a good light and present her with what you have found. Make sure to tell her that you will take a hunter safety course,and then do it.Be persistent but not rude. Forceful but considerate of her feelings. She is your mother and she is always going to be protective when it comes to you. Good luck and don't give up. It will happen.

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from steve182 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell her you want to provide lean meat for the family's table. Meat free of added hormones, antibiotics, pesticides, etc...Organic even, in the truest sense of the word. That may help. And tell her without hunting, wild animal populations run askew, leading to disease, starvation and Animal vs. Motor vehichle collisions. Be persistent. Also tell her you want to enjoy the great outdoors and that hunting isn't about killing.

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from CavRecon wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Buy this book. Read it twice. Then make her read it. :)

http://www.amazon.com/Politically-Incorrect-Guide-Hunting-Guides/dp/1596...

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from muskiemaster wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

You need to show to her that you want to have self discipline and show her how you want to provide food for the table and that the animals aren't helpless they are the healthiest form of nutrition and requires patience and practice.

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from Big O wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell her you would be helping the animals by keeping population in check.
They are ANYTHING but "helpless".

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from MLH wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Parents are invited to attend most Hunters Safety courses with their kids. Cost is no more than $10. That should be an eye opener for her.

Also, educate yourself on hunting as a management tool. I'll add Ruffed Grouse Society (RGS), Pheasants Forever, and National Wild Turkey Federation (NWTF) to the list. Without hunters and the money we put into conservation much animal and habitat research would not be funded, and we wouldn't have the land put aside and the programs to support the habitat animals need to prosper and multiply. Some animals would not be as abundant as they are without hunters - wild turkey, whitetail deer, grouse, woodcock, pheasant, quail, elk ... the list goes on. Habitat improvements also benefit many non-game species. Perhaps make this a research project.

If you don't shoot, yet, then check if there is a youth trap, skeet or target club at a local range. These can be an excellent for training and a segue into hunting.

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from JOHN ANDERSON wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

MY MOM WAS THE SAME, SHE FINALY REALIZED MY PASSION FOR THE OUT DOORS WHEN SHE WENT FISHING WITH ME. I STRONGLY SUGGEST INVOLVING HER IN YOUR OUTINGS BECOME A TEAM.Id ALSO LEAVE SOME WILDGAME COOKBOOKSAROUND.ANIMALS ARE NOT HELPLESS.BUT THEY ARE EXCELLENT SOURCE OF PROTEIN

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from Edward J. Palumbo wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

It's difficult to counter presupposition. A few excellent points have already been raised. MLH has already mentioned the reason I offer to most nonhunters: hunting as a game management too. If she's a gardener, you could use the analogy of pruning the roses for the benefit of those that remain. Remind her that successful hunting is highly unlikely without studying the habits and environment of wild game, and nothing negative can come of an effort like that. Beyond that, convince her that you will conduct yourself safely. There were no hunters or outdoorsmen in my immediate family, so I didn't have the opportunity to accompany my father or uncles on a hunt. When I was a teenager (I'm 62 now), my mother was primarily concerned about my safety, concerned that I'd be mistaken for a whitetail and shot by a trigger-happy hunter, or any of a broad variety of possibilities surrounding the discharge of a firearm. Be patient and consistent in demonstrating/sharing your interest in hunting and the outdoors.

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from JOHN ANDERSON wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

MR,PALUMBO. MY HAT IS OFF TO YOU SIR!ROCK SOLID ADVICE!

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from peter wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

tell her its not killin for fun you kill for meat and controllin populations so they dont overopopulate and starve, and tell her you kill them humanely, and they arent helpless hunting is a hard and log process and they have the uper hand because of there adavanced senes, and tell ger huntin is the oldest, most important sport in the world

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from hjohn429 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell her the truth. Animals are not helpless and I sure as hell hope you aren't killing them for fun. Almost all game animals have extreme advantages over we humans. They know the woods better than us, and can usually see or smell us from miles away.

You should also tell her that it is better for the animals to be shot and killed instantly by hunters than it is for them tjo over-populate and be hit by cars or eaten alive by wild dogs or coyotes.

Also it is our duty to keep each species to a proper population. And you kill the animals for your for you and your family to eat. Se is entirely wrong to tell you or anybody not to hunt and there is no way she can know anything about hunting if she has never done it herself.

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from Edward J. Palumbo wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Mr. Anderson,
You are a gentleman, and I thank you for your comment.
Ed

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from Jeff4066 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Like many questions here, there is an awful lot of advice given here with no information...

Stated your way, this "desire" sounds no different than "I want a new video game.". You are obviously at an age where your mother can tell you what you can and cannot do. That's not bad, of course, because our parents' main concern is to get us to the age of 18 without us becoming axe-murderers, or worse, dead.

So, good comments above aside, you are not going to change her mind pretty much with any feasible statement.

So... what you need is a guide.

You didn't mention your father in this. If they're divorced, that could account for your mother possibly never wanting you to do anything your father liked at all. (Sounds harsh, but there was some of that when I was a teenager.)

You need to have an uncle, or aunt, or some family member who does hunt, and is respected by your mother, to get involved. Some light target shooting. Enhance any safety instruction. Have some venison for dinner. This is not an "on-off switch" you can toggle.

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from Scott in Ohio wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

MLH got it right early on. Have her attend a hunter safety course WITH you (preferably one taught by your state's wildlife officers). Then she can speak with the wildlife officers (who are professionals AND adults like her). Jeff4066 makes an excellent point too. You need to find a neighbor or relative who your Mom trusts, to take you out to show you the ropes.

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from hunter99 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

After you go on some good hunts wait for her to go into your refridgerater and be pleased that you have all sorts of meat in their because of what she calls killing just animals for fun. Also deer meat as hamburgers is pretty good have her try it out!

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from mattreney wrote 2 years 45 weeks ago

point out that at least the meat you would be providing would be safe, you know where it comes from its in healthyconditions not injected with nasty hormones and touched by who knows who we had a school in our town ordering meat from a company who would find their cows dead from disease and malnutrition and still cut them up and ship them off

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from rdubya wrote 2 years 44 weeks ago

I am 60 yrs old and have been hunting off and on all my life. Because you are just starting out you might tell her an old saying. "That's why it's called hunting not killing" the first few times you go out will be just that (unless you hunt with a guide or someone who knows what they are doing.) The game is a lot smarter than you at surviving so basically all you will be doing is walking in nature carrying equipment. By the time you get good at hunting/killing your mom will hopefully relize that it's not bad and join you.

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from norcalhunter7 wrote 2 years 20 weeks ago

Tell her it's not about killing animals but that it's about being in the outdoors and learning a respect for nature and seeing the true beauty of the animals and just being a part of nature

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from blackdawgz wrote 2 years 16 weeks ago

Nothing. A mothers job is to keep things alive.

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from Duckkiller4 wrote 2 years 7 weeks ago

tell her that he will keep the population down so that it doesn't go out of control and start gettin into all her stuff

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from smallgamehunter25 wrote 2 years 6 weeks ago

if you have a garden, tell her you'll shoot the pests around the house, not much, but its a start

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from tyler.lunn wrote 1 year 43 weeks ago

You can tell her that it can be a good meal if you eat it. If you dont and have dogs you can tell her that it can make good dog food and that it will benifit you and the dog. If that dosent work you can tell her that you are trying to keep the population down so they dont bother her stuff outside.

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from huntcamp wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

It is all about education, no matter the age. Find a local fund raising dinner, Whitetails Unlimited or Ducks Unlimited, doesn't matter which, and try and get her to take you. So she can see first hand what the people are like and what hunting really is and what it does for the conservation of lands and game. Good luck on that one. Hope to see you in the field.

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from Edward J. Palumbo wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

It's difficult to counter presupposition. A few excellent points have already been raised. MLH has already mentioned the reason I offer to most nonhunters: hunting as a game management too. If she's a gardener, you could use the analogy of pruning the roses for the benefit of those that remain. Remind her that successful hunting is highly unlikely without studying the habits and environment of wild game, and nothing negative can come of an effort like that. Beyond that, convince her that you will conduct yourself safely. There were no hunters or outdoorsmen in my immediate family, so I didn't have the opportunity to accompany my father or uncles on a hunt. When I was a teenager (I'm 62 now), my mother was primarily concerned about my safety, concerned that I'd be mistaken for a whitetail and shot by a trigger-happy hunter, or any of a broad variety of possibilities surrounding the discharge of a firearm. Be patient and consistent in demonstrating/sharing your interest in hunting and the outdoors.

+5 Good Comment? | | Report
from TonyK wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

First, you can tell her the animals are not helpless. They are living and thriving in the wild. Second, you can tell her you will help cut the food bill by shooting a deer or two. Meat is a big expense now a days and a venison helps out more than one would think.

+4 Good Comment? | | Report
from power hunter wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell your mother that its not the kill, its the thrill of the chase. Or tell her that its better than getting into trouble else where.

+4 Good Comment? | | Report
from libertyfirst wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

There are some excellent postings here with good advise on how to deal with your mother. Education about wildlife and how hunting is the best of the management tools is the best approach. Try to explain to her that hunting is an activity that you want to pursue. Search the local library for information that puts hunting in a good light and present her with what you have found. Make sure to tell her that you will take a hunter safety course,and then do it.Be persistent but not rude. Forceful but considerate of her feelings. She is your mother and she is always going to be protective when it comes to you. Good luck and don't give up. It will happen.

+4 Good Comment? | | Report
from GiantWhitetails wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

tell her that hunting is critical to the survival of the natural world. there is nothing wrong with it and it benefits the wildlife more than anything. Animals survive better with less competition. overpopulation leads to unhealthy wildlife and eventually starvation. so hunting controls populations allowing for animals to thrive with abundant resources. And overall its a great experience and will make you a better human being.

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from hunterkid94 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

ask her if she would rather have a child that is a hunter, or one who has no hobby and gets into gangs and stuff

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from Elmer Fudd wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

You are probably never going to convince her. However, if you are old enough to hunt you are going to have to let her know you really want to go hunting whether she approves of it or not. Convince her of the measures you are taking to be safe; secretly, this may be her real concern.

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from steve182 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell her you want to provide lean meat for the family's table. Meat free of added hormones, antibiotics, pesticides, etc...Organic even, in the truest sense of the word. That may help. And tell her without hunting, wild animal populations run askew, leading to disease, starvation and Animal vs. Motor vehichle collisions. Be persistent. Also tell her you want to enjoy the great outdoors and that hunting isn't about killing.

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from CavRecon wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Buy this book. Read it twice. Then make her read it. :)

http://www.amazon.com/Politically-Incorrect-Guide-Hunting-Guides/dp/1596...

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from muskiemaster wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

You need to show to her that you want to have self discipline and show her how you want to provide food for the table and that the animals aren't helpless they are the healthiest form of nutrition and requires patience and practice.

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from Big O wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell her you would be helping the animals by keeping population in check.
They are ANYTHING but "helpless".

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from MLH wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Parents are invited to attend most Hunters Safety courses with their kids. Cost is no more than $10. That should be an eye opener for her.

Also, educate yourself on hunting as a management tool. I'll add Ruffed Grouse Society (RGS), Pheasants Forever, and National Wild Turkey Federation (NWTF) to the list. Without hunters and the money we put into conservation much animal and habitat research would not be funded, and we wouldn't have the land put aside and the programs to support the habitat animals need to prosper and multiply. Some animals would not be as abundant as they are without hunters - wild turkey, whitetail deer, grouse, woodcock, pheasant, quail, elk ... the list goes on. Habitat improvements also benefit many non-game species. Perhaps make this a research project.

If you don't shoot, yet, then check if there is a youth trap, skeet or target club at a local range. These can be an excellent for training and a segue into hunting.

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from JOHN ANDERSON wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

MY MOM WAS THE SAME, SHE FINALY REALIZED MY PASSION FOR THE OUT DOORS WHEN SHE WENT FISHING WITH ME. I STRONGLY SUGGEST INVOLVING HER IN YOUR OUTINGS BECOME A TEAM.Id ALSO LEAVE SOME WILDGAME COOKBOOKSAROUND.ANIMALS ARE NOT HELPLESS.BUT THEY ARE EXCELLENT SOURCE OF PROTEIN

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from Jeff4066 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Like many questions here, there is an awful lot of advice given here with no information...

Stated your way, this "desire" sounds no different than "I want a new video game.". You are obviously at an age where your mother can tell you what you can and cannot do. That's not bad, of course, because our parents' main concern is to get us to the age of 18 without us becoming axe-murderers, or worse, dead.

So, good comments above aside, you are not going to change her mind pretty much with any feasible statement.

So... what you need is a guide.

You didn't mention your father in this. If they're divorced, that could account for your mother possibly never wanting you to do anything your father liked at all. (Sounds harsh, but there was some of that when I was a teenager.)

You need to have an uncle, or aunt, or some family member who does hunt, and is respected by your mother, to get involved. Some light target shooting. Enhance any safety instruction. Have some venison for dinner. This is not an "on-off switch" you can toggle.

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from Scott in Ohio wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

MLH got it right early on. Have her attend a hunter safety course WITH you (preferably one taught by your state's wildlife officers). Then she can speak with the wildlife officers (who are professionals AND adults like her). Jeff4066 makes an excellent point too. You need to find a neighbor or relative who your Mom trusts, to take you out to show you the ropes.

+3 Good Comment? | | Report
from JOHN ANDERSON wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

MR,PALUMBO. MY HAT IS OFF TO YOU SIR!ROCK SOLID ADVICE!

+2 Good Comment? | | Report
from peter wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

tell her its not killin for fun you kill for meat and controllin populations so they dont overopopulate and starve, and tell her you kill them humanely, and they arent helpless hunting is a hard and log process and they have the uper hand because of there adavanced senes, and tell ger huntin is the oldest, most important sport in the world

+2 Good Comment? | | Report
from hjohn429 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Tell her the truth. Animals are not helpless and I sure as hell hope you aren't killing them for fun. Almost all game animals have extreme advantages over we humans. They know the woods better than us, and can usually see or smell us from miles away.

You should also tell her that it is better for the animals to be shot and killed instantly by hunters than it is for them tjo over-populate and be hit by cars or eaten alive by wild dogs or coyotes.

Also it is our duty to keep each species to a proper population. And you kill the animals for your for you and your family to eat. Se is entirely wrong to tell you or anybody not to hunt and there is no way she can know anything about hunting if she has never done it herself.

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from Edward J. Palumbo wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

Mr. Anderson,
You are a gentleman, and I thank you for your comment.
Ed

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from hunter99 wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

After you go on some good hunts wait for her to go into your refridgerater and be pleased that you have all sorts of meat in their because of what she calls killing just animals for fun. Also deer meat as hamburgers is pretty good have her try it out!

+2 Good Comment? | | Report
from mattreney wrote 2 years 45 weeks ago

point out that at least the meat you would be providing would be safe, you know where it comes from its in healthyconditions not injected with nasty hormones and touched by who knows who we had a school in our town ordering meat from a company who would find their cows dead from disease and malnutrition and still cut them up and ship them off

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from rdubya wrote 2 years 44 weeks ago

I am 60 yrs old and have been hunting off and on all my life. Because you are just starting out you might tell her an old saying. "That's why it's called hunting not killing" the first few times you go out will be just that (unless you hunt with a guide or someone who knows what they are doing.) The game is a lot smarter than you at surviving so basically all you will be doing is walking in nature carrying equipment. By the time you get good at hunting/killing your mom will hopefully relize that it's not bad and join you.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from norcalhunter7 wrote 2 years 20 weeks ago

Tell her it's not about killing animals but that it's about being in the outdoors and learning a respect for nature and seeing the true beauty of the animals and just being a part of nature

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from smallgamehunter25 wrote 2 years 6 weeks ago

if you have a garden, tell her you'll shoot the pests around the house, not much, but its a start

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from blackdawgz wrote 2 years 16 weeks ago

Nothing. A mothers job is to keep things alive.

0 Good Comment? | | Report
from Duckkiller4 wrote 2 years 7 weeks ago

tell her that he will keep the population down so that it doesn't go out of control and start gettin into all her stuff

0 Good Comment? | | Report
from tyler.lunn wrote 1 year 43 weeks ago

You can tell her that it can be a good meal if you eat it. If you dont and have dogs you can tell her that it can make good dog food and that it will benifit you and the dog. If that dosent work you can tell her that you are trying to keep the population down so they dont bother her stuff outside.

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from the hunter wrote 2 years 46 weeks ago

If you have cats tell her it's free catfood.

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