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Have You Hugged Your Dog Today?

February 16, 2009

Have You Hugged Your Dog Today?

By Kim Hiss

So, I was out for my jog in the woods Saturday, and after about a mile I got to a point where the trail intersects with a fairly busy, four-lane road. I turned onto the road and was going for a few minutes when I saw a Scottish terrier running along the curb about 25 yards in front of me. He was moving pretty good for a little guy and seemed totally confused. He'd duck into a driveway, then dart out into the road, then stop, then turn around, then go straight again. There were cars coming in all lanes in both directions, so I hauled ass to catch up with him, figuring at the very least I could herd him off the road. By the time I was level with him, traffic had stopped while he zig-zagged along the yellow line. I ran between the cars to chase him off the road and toward a cluster of houses up a hill, hoping he belonged to one of them. Luckily he ran ahead of me in the right direction, and the incident had a happy ending when I crested the hill to see his owner bending down to put him back on his leash. When I caught up to them, the owner said that "Scotty" (real original name) had never run off like that and she had no idea what had gotten into him. 

     Watching this terrified little dog dart in and out of traffic gave me that feeling that can only be made better by going home and hugging your dog -- or in my apartment-dwelling case, your cat. I lost my first pet when she was hit by a car, so I'm only too happy to appreciate every moment I have with my animals now. So, if you haven't had time to spent with your dog, cat, iguana, whatever, today, maybe take a second to give them an extra pat on the head -- and remind them not to play in traffic. -K.H. 

 

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from Lou A. wrote 3 years 14 weeks ago

I had a similar thing happen to me. I was with a friend doing a long run for our marathon traininig a few years back and we saw a terrior head straight for us across four lanes of traffic, just as he hit the middle of the last lane, closest to us, a car came and hit him square, the #@&%!# never even slowed down. He never had a chance. We didn't see anyone looking for him, but it was obvious that he was someone's pal. I pulled him onto the grass so he wouldn't get mangled and after our run, my friend went to the neighborhood where we saw him come from and found a lady looking for him. She was upset by what happened, but glad that someone took the time and effort to find her and let her know.

I'm glad your story had a happier ending Kim!

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from jan wrote 3 years 14 weeks ago

How sad! When it comes to pets, I'm a real softie. Our dog died last year; he was 19 yrs old!!! And since he and I had a running battle for years about him digging in my flower beds to find a spot of cool dirt to lay in during the heat of the summer, when he died, that's where we burried him....He has a nice marker right in the middle of my flower bed, and I've planted flowers all around him.
We have 2 cats now, 1 of them very loving, and will welcome attention any time, and the other is disdainful about any type of attention. Usually, he will suffer in silence through a hug, but then he jumps down, sticks his nose in the air and saunters off as if to say, "How dare you!" They sure are entertaining - and both are horribly spoiled!

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from Beekeeper wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Buried my oldest beagle last week. She would have been 15 years old on her next birthday. She was a great hunter and pet. She had more trouble than a government mule during her life. She was a bottle raised runt. She had a broken leg at six months when one of our bird dogs stepped on her while playing together. She had several surgeries and she still remained the same happy go lucky dog. She was small her whole life and as tough as a pine knot. For the last year she was deaf as a post or she would have gone out hunting, she never lost her fire or desire. Her litter mate brother was twice her size and her hunting companion and inseparable playmate, Mutt and Jeff as my wife called them, they made a perfect hunting pair. He preceeded her in death by 3 years (cancer). I know he was waiting for her on the other side...

My wife and I make sure to take time each day to hug and play (at least briefly) with each of our dogs. Those memories last a life time!

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from dwaynez wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

My dogs are spoiled they are indoor and outdoor dogs, my big dog will sit on the couch with me and watch fishing and hunting shows.

I am a softie when it comes to my animals and would do anything for them, I have a a good sized area for them to run and play in so, with a good fence to keep them safe.

I will make sure they get an extra dog treat this evening.

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from Jim in Mo wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I wish I was a veterinarian. People will spend anything for their animal while they themselves are sick. My patients wouldn't complain and ask for medicine they don't need, and I would be happy being around a living ceature that doesn't judge me.

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from Judy Black wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I posted the story a while back about the Jack/Rat Russel that just showed up one day at our office. I told how he had become just one of the family and how I just could not imagine my/our life without him. Well...
On January 10th we had to have him put to sleep and now I know what emptiness feels like.
My one day a week off from work is the worst (today is one) as he was with me 24/7. He went to work with us every day for 10 years and if the truck, tractor or 4 wheeler moved, Jeff was in or on it.
What I would not give for one more smooch on the cheek as we travel in the pickup or a nudge of my arm because he wants his ears rubbed. I miss the damn dog hair that I use to constantly bit@# about and would gladly clean up one more of his little "land mines" left in the front yard.
Tomorrow is not a promise and they like people do not live forever. Love and hug them today because tomorrow you may have to make the decision that we did.
Many have asked if we are going to get another dog, like running right out and getting a new one would fill the void. My reply to them is "absolutely not, as you can't replace the best".
Maybe someday...just not TODAY.
JB

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from NorCal Cazadora wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I would hug my cat but she's hiding under her favorite camo netting at the moment (and considering she's a calico, it really hides her well).

I lost my first dog when he was hit by a car - a memory I don't want to relive. Suffice it to say I'm so glad to hear this one lived.

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from Laura Bell wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

You hit my soft spot, Dogs!!
Glad your story had a happy ending Kim.
Some of you might already know that I own 4 hunting dogs. I spoil them dearly, daily treats and attention, gifts for b-days and Christmas, the whole bit.
My oldest will be 9yrs tomorrow! Time flies!! He's my Teddy bear and since he's getting up their in years I bring him inside the basement on really cold nights and hot summer days. He loves it.
I've only recently had one in the house full time. Now she is a spoiled brat, but I gotta love her. She's sleeping on my bed right now actually.... I don't care what I'm doing though, she'll be there to check on me to see what's happening. When I come home she looks out the window and then runs to the door to greet me, jumping and all happy. If we come home from shopping she has to pick through my bags to see if I bought her anything. Lol I don't know what I'd do without her.

I'm making it a point today to send you Pics Kim!! I just recently took some and I will send them to you this afternoon!

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from rabbitpolice88 wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I have a German Shepherd named Anna. She is 13 years old now and I am dreading the day she dies. She has been a friend to me since I was 7 or 8. I taught her how to hunt squirrels and play soccer with the guys. She keeps the yotes out of the pasture and away from the chickens. I thank the good Lord every day for her, she has been a better friend to me than most people could ever be. She is so loyal it reminds me of how the Lord loves us and watches over us.

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from jamesti wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

right after i got my divorce, i moved from alaska to colorado. i was in a lot of pain because of the way things went and soon after i moved here i got the black lab puppy i had intended to get for years but my wife would not agree to. he has been my salvation and the companionship he has given me really saved me. he had his first season in the field and on the water this season and even though he is a pup still he did really well. i named him Chaos because that's the way my life was when i got him. don't know what i would have done without him. i've had another long relationship that i got hurt in since then and he has been with me through it as well. gotta love a faithful dog when others aren't.

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from Sportsman Matt wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Thankfully you and the dog were not injured in the road. Your story brings out some long forgotten feelings for an old friend of mine. Unfortunately my friend, an old Siberian Husky, had to be put down when I was about 14. Over 20 years later I still miss that dog, but I never did get another one after that. Sometimes I think I should get a new dog, but for some reason the loss was too big for me to want to go through that again.

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from kimhiss wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I completely hear SportsmanMatt and those of you who talk about the impossibility of replacing an animal, but it's funny how sometimes they're the ones who find you. A few years ago, my friend begged me to take one of her cats who was constantly getting attacked by her other pets. Then, two years after that, another friend told me about a beautiful long-haired calico who got stuck in a 24-hour kill shelter in Manhattan after her family moved from Florida to discover their new apartment didn't take pets. Now they're both happy, spoiled and currently stretched out in the sun on my living room carpet.

Judy Black, of course I remembered your loss, but Beekeeper, I'm so sorry to hear about your beagle. And rabbitpolice88, I hope Anna is hunting squirrels and playing soccer for many years to come. -K.H.

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from Shannon S. wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Kim,

I did something similar about a year ago, but it was a kitten that I had rescued. I was driving to meet a friend for lunch and drove by a poor kitten that looked like it may have been hit, but was still very much alive. The road I was on was a fairly busy divided street so I had to turn around, park in a drugstore parking lot, cross the eastbound traffic, and then just when I thought the kitten was going to get crushed by a westbound oncoming car, the driver slammed on his brakes and just missed it. He told me to grab the cat and he'd stay in park. I had to climb under his car, where the kitten had crawled, but was able to grab the little guy by the scruff of the neck.

When we were back out of the road, I inspected him for damage and other than his front claws being broken and a little bloody he was just fine. He had been so scared he had just clawed at the asphalt. As I got back to the car with him wrapped in my sweatshirt I was suddenly struck with the question, "What do I do now?". My husband hates cats. lol. Thankfully, the friend that I was supposed to meet for lunch is a bleeding heart cat lover and she gave "Small Boy" a home. The poor little guy got out again a few months ago and that time wasn't so lucky. I guess he used up his 9 lives the day we met. :(

And I'm so going home to give my two pooches lots of loving tonight. I have a chocolate lab that will be 11 this spring and a lab mix who will be 10.

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from Bella wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

My old mutt Lily died last fall, she was a dear thing, although not particularly obedient she was a superior doorbell and a good listener. We have recruited her replacement, a beautiful Samoyed Puppy now sleeping at my feet. We named her Kojka. Yes, I hugged my dog today.

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from kimhiss wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Shannon, I would have done exactly the same thing -- that kitten was lucky you happened by when you did! And Bella, I'm sorry to hear about Lily. I have to say, though, that's a great name for the new puppy. -K.H.

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from shane wrote 3 years 10 weeks ago

I get really nervous every time I see a pet near a road. Not only do I fear for the pet, I feel for the owners who might lose that pet, knowing the pain involved.

Some people can never understand the bond some people make with their pets, especially dogs. Call me weird, or sick in the head, but I lost my grandmother and my first dog at around the same time. I have to admit, I was a lot more upset about the dog than I have been for anything else, ever.

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from jamesti wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

right after i got my divorce, i moved from alaska to colorado. i was in a lot of pain because of the way things went and soon after i moved here i got the black lab puppy i had intended to get for years but my wife would not agree to. he has been my salvation and the companionship he has given me really saved me. he had his first season in the field and on the water this season and even though he is a pup still he did really well. i named him Chaos because that's the way my life was when i got him. don't know what i would have done without him. i've had another long relationship that i got hurt in since then and he has been with me through it as well. gotta love a faithful dog when others aren't.

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from Beekeeper wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Buried my oldest beagle last week. She would have been 15 years old on her next birthday. She was a great hunter and pet. She had more trouble than a government mule during her life. She was a bottle raised runt. She had a broken leg at six months when one of our bird dogs stepped on her while playing together. She had several surgeries and she still remained the same happy go lucky dog. She was small her whole life and as tough as a pine knot. For the last year she was deaf as a post or she would have gone out hunting, she never lost her fire or desire. Her litter mate brother was twice her size and her hunting companion and inseparable playmate, Mutt and Jeff as my wife called them, they made a perfect hunting pair. He preceeded her in death by 3 years (cancer). I know he was waiting for her on the other side...

My wife and I make sure to take time each day to hug and play (at least briefly) with each of our dogs. Those memories last a life time!

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from Jim in Mo wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I wish I was a veterinarian. People will spend anything for their animal while they themselves are sick. My patients wouldn't complain and ask for medicine they don't need, and I would be happy being around a living ceature that doesn't judge me.

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from rabbitpolice88 wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I have a German Shepherd named Anna. She is 13 years old now and I am dreading the day she dies. She has been a friend to me since I was 7 or 8. I taught her how to hunt squirrels and play soccer with the guys. She keeps the yotes out of the pasture and away from the chickens. I thank the good Lord every day for her, she has been a better friend to me than most people could ever be. She is so loyal it reminds me of how the Lord loves us and watches over us.

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from Lou A. wrote 3 years 14 weeks ago

I had a similar thing happen to me. I was with a friend doing a long run for our marathon traininig a few years back and we saw a terrior head straight for us across four lanes of traffic, just as he hit the middle of the last lane, closest to us, a car came and hit him square, the #@&%!# never even slowed down. He never had a chance. We didn't see anyone looking for him, but it was obvious that he was someone's pal. I pulled him onto the grass so he wouldn't get mangled and after our run, my friend went to the neighborhood where we saw him come from and found a lady looking for him. She was upset by what happened, but glad that someone took the time and effort to find her and let her know.

I'm glad your story had a happier ending Kim!

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from jan wrote 3 years 14 weeks ago

How sad! When it comes to pets, I'm a real softie. Our dog died last year; he was 19 yrs old!!! And since he and I had a running battle for years about him digging in my flower beds to find a spot of cool dirt to lay in during the heat of the summer, when he died, that's where we burried him....He has a nice marker right in the middle of my flower bed, and I've planted flowers all around him.
We have 2 cats now, 1 of them very loving, and will welcome attention any time, and the other is disdainful about any type of attention. Usually, he will suffer in silence through a hug, but then he jumps down, sticks his nose in the air and saunters off as if to say, "How dare you!" They sure are entertaining - and both are horribly spoiled!

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from dwaynez wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

My dogs are spoiled they are indoor and outdoor dogs, my big dog will sit on the couch with me and watch fishing and hunting shows.

I am a softie when it comes to my animals and would do anything for them, I have a a good sized area for them to run and play in so, with a good fence to keep them safe.

I will make sure they get an extra dog treat this evening.

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from Judy Black wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I posted the story a while back about the Jack/Rat Russel that just showed up one day at our office. I told how he had become just one of the family and how I just could not imagine my/our life without him. Well...
On January 10th we had to have him put to sleep and now I know what emptiness feels like.
My one day a week off from work is the worst (today is one) as he was with me 24/7. He went to work with us every day for 10 years and if the truck, tractor or 4 wheeler moved, Jeff was in or on it.
What I would not give for one more smooch on the cheek as we travel in the pickup or a nudge of my arm because he wants his ears rubbed. I miss the damn dog hair that I use to constantly bit@# about and would gladly clean up one more of his little "land mines" left in the front yard.
Tomorrow is not a promise and they like people do not live forever. Love and hug them today because tomorrow you may have to make the decision that we did.
Many have asked if we are going to get another dog, like running right out and getting a new one would fill the void. My reply to them is "absolutely not, as you can't replace the best".
Maybe someday...just not TODAY.
JB

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from NorCal Cazadora wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I would hug my cat but she's hiding under her favorite camo netting at the moment (and considering she's a calico, it really hides her well).

I lost my first dog when he was hit by a car - a memory I don't want to relive. Suffice it to say I'm so glad to hear this one lived.

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from Laura Bell wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

You hit my soft spot, Dogs!!
Glad your story had a happy ending Kim.
Some of you might already know that I own 4 hunting dogs. I spoil them dearly, daily treats and attention, gifts for b-days and Christmas, the whole bit.
My oldest will be 9yrs tomorrow! Time flies!! He's my Teddy bear and since he's getting up their in years I bring him inside the basement on really cold nights and hot summer days. He loves it.
I've only recently had one in the house full time. Now she is a spoiled brat, but I gotta love her. She's sleeping on my bed right now actually.... I don't care what I'm doing though, she'll be there to check on me to see what's happening. When I come home she looks out the window and then runs to the door to greet me, jumping and all happy. If we come home from shopping she has to pick through my bags to see if I bought her anything. Lol I don't know what I'd do without her.

I'm making it a point today to send you Pics Kim!! I just recently took some and I will send them to you this afternoon!

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from Sportsman Matt wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Thankfully you and the dog were not injured in the road. Your story brings out some long forgotten feelings for an old friend of mine. Unfortunately my friend, an old Siberian Husky, had to be put down when I was about 14. Over 20 years later I still miss that dog, but I never did get another one after that. Sometimes I think I should get a new dog, but for some reason the loss was too big for me to want to go through that again.

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from kimhiss wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

I completely hear SportsmanMatt and those of you who talk about the impossibility of replacing an animal, but it's funny how sometimes they're the ones who find you. A few years ago, my friend begged me to take one of her cats who was constantly getting attacked by her other pets. Then, two years after that, another friend told me about a beautiful long-haired calico who got stuck in a 24-hour kill shelter in Manhattan after her family moved from Florida to discover their new apartment didn't take pets. Now they're both happy, spoiled and currently stretched out in the sun on my living room carpet.

Judy Black, of course I remembered your loss, but Beekeeper, I'm so sorry to hear about your beagle. And rabbitpolice88, I hope Anna is hunting squirrels and playing soccer for many years to come. -K.H.

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from Shannon S. wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Kim,

I did something similar about a year ago, but it was a kitten that I had rescued. I was driving to meet a friend for lunch and drove by a poor kitten that looked like it may have been hit, but was still very much alive. The road I was on was a fairly busy divided street so I had to turn around, park in a drugstore parking lot, cross the eastbound traffic, and then just when I thought the kitten was going to get crushed by a westbound oncoming car, the driver slammed on his brakes and just missed it. He told me to grab the cat and he'd stay in park. I had to climb under his car, where the kitten had crawled, but was able to grab the little guy by the scruff of the neck.

When we were back out of the road, I inspected him for damage and other than his front claws being broken and a little bloody he was just fine. He had been so scared he had just clawed at the asphalt. As I got back to the car with him wrapped in my sweatshirt I was suddenly struck with the question, "What do I do now?". My husband hates cats. lol. Thankfully, the friend that I was supposed to meet for lunch is a bleeding heart cat lover and she gave "Small Boy" a home. The poor little guy got out again a few months ago and that time wasn't so lucky. I guess he used up his 9 lives the day we met. :(

And I'm so going home to give my two pooches lots of loving tonight. I have a chocolate lab that will be 11 this spring and a lab mix who will be 10.

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from Bella wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

My old mutt Lily died last fall, she was a dear thing, although not particularly obedient she was a superior doorbell and a good listener. We have recruited her replacement, a beautiful Samoyed Puppy now sleeping at my feet. We named her Kojka. Yes, I hugged my dog today.

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from kimhiss wrote 3 years 13 weeks ago

Shannon, I would have done exactly the same thing -- that kitten was lucky you happened by when you did! And Bella, I'm sorry to hear about Lily. I have to say, though, that's a great name for the new puppy. -K.H.

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from shane wrote 3 years 10 weeks ago

I get really nervous every time I see a pet near a road. Not only do I fear for the pet, I feel for the owners who might lose that pet, knowing the pain involved.

Some people can never understand the bond some people make with their pets, especially dogs. Call me weird, or sick in the head, but I lost my grandmother and my first dog at around the same time. I have to admit, I was a lot more upset about the dog than I have been for anything else, ever.

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