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June 05, 2009

My New Favorite Assignment

By Kirk Deeter

I'm posting late today because we had to wait for the UPS man to arrive.  You see, today is a very big day in the Deeter household.  My son, Paul, is 8 years old (he'll be 9 in September)... and he just got his first very own pair of size 3 waders.

I remember when my dad popped me in my first waders.  It was like having an extra birthday that year.  I don't know who is more excited about this latest rite of passage, Paul or me.

So tomorrow, my wife, son, and I will be shoving off on a long drive to Michigan.  I will spend the next few weeks taking it easy, doing some writing, going to the Outdoor Writer's Association of America conference in Grand Rapids, and tackling a couple "Going Deep" assignments for the magazine (scuba diving with walleye and pike).

But I've given myself the best assignment of all.  I'm going to teach my son how to fly fish, on the same water where I did much of my own learning.  Of course, we've dabbled since he was a sprite... had him on my shoulders in the river when he was a toddler... did the worm and bobber thing at the trout pond... and have been ironing out that crazy cast with the "really long fishing pole" for a few months.  But now we're going to put the whole thing together, knee-deep in the river.

Wish us luck.  He's ready.  I hope I am up to the challenge... hope the little guy picks up a trick or two (and not my bad habits).  We've spent a lot of time lately on Fly Talk sharing tips and tricks for you all... now, any advice you can shoot back my way regarding starting a little one in the river would be most appreciated.

Most of all, here's wishing all you dads (and sons) out there an early Happy Father's Day, and hoping you get to spend some quality time on the river together.

Deeter

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from fishingfury wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I cant wait till my son reaches his age!

Happy fathers day!

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Lucky kid! And lucky dad! If you end up going deep on Lake St. Clair don't be surprised to get a face to face with a muskie.

If you're in MI at the end of June through early July then be sure to hit the night hex hatch, if our temperatures ever rise. It can still get down to the 40's at night.

As for tips ... I have a feeling there is not much we can tell you. But if you get to the northern Michigan trout rivers, avoid the aluminus flotilla hatch at all costs - have to get out in early morning and late evening or on weekdays.

Of course, go where there's lots of fish. If you have a canoe/raft that you can portage a 1/4 mile, there is a catch and release only lake in the northern lower - HUGE gills, bass, and pike. Near impossible to wade/fish from shore. Nice at midday when the rivers are full of canoes. Get my e-mail from the webmaster and I can send you the directions.

Be sure to stop at the old Au Sable Fly Shop in Grayling to meet Andy and to find out what trout are hitting and the best places to wade for a young kid (www.oldausable.com). Also consider taking an Au Sable river boat float. Then to Gates Lodge on the banks of the Au Sable (www.gateslodge.com) for a second opinion and to have lunch. When I took a 12-year old flyfishing for the first time, we took a break for lunch and had some of Julie's excellent soup and sandwiches while sitting at a window seat. He's several years older now, still remembers that day, and wants to stop for lunch whenever he's near the lodge.

Then there's the big water floats .... Too many other options to cover here. If you're going to other areas and want some help let me know and I will try to point you to someone.

I think you're all going to have a lifetime of memories from this trip.

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Thank you very much for such a thoughtful response and great insights. I'll follow your lead. KD

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Oh ... not the time of the year for anadromous runs but you can wet a line in the Grand River, right downtown. Rogue River for trout is fairly close. I'll be at the OWAA for a Saturday workshop but can't stick around.

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from jcarlin wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Deeter,
That is one happy looking kid. Have fun.

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

MLH- I'll be at OWAA Sat. for a trade magazine seminar, and an editor meet-and-greet after, would love to see you.

jcarlin- the smile behind the camera was bigger. Thanks.

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

This Young Man Paul is the definition of “WOW”!

My Grandson Alex age 10 is already showing the finesse of a true Sportsman

My Fly Fishing skills are like a “BULL WHIP”!

Perhaps we can make a deal, show my Grandson Fly Fishing and I’ll introduce Paul to the “SITNC” Club.
Shoot Them In The Next County Club!

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Clay, that's a deal, as long as I get a few shooting pointers also. KD

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from karmano wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

He is adorable in those little waders. I remember my first pair. I didn't get to use them much because my dad was too afraid of me falling in the river and filling them up even with a wader belt cinched extremely tight. He carried me across every river instead. Have a great time in Michigan. I'm sure it will be quite the adventure.

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from Alabama Flygirl wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Very cool Deeter! Have fun and be safe!

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from buckhunter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I hate to steal a quote from a movie but after seeing that photo I feel like "I was witnessing perfection".

Drive carefully Deet.

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

buckhunter... he's named Paul for a reason. Thanks.

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from Alex Pernice th... wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

1, Deeter, that's the best movie EVER!
2, if you come around the burbs of Chicago, come my way for some real fishing...

AP

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

kirkdeeter

You’re on Sir provided you show me a few pointers too!

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

PS I wish I had a nickel for every fly I lost,

POW"GONE!

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Got thinking about Young Paul, I believe when he grows up going to be one of those fella’s to say

Can’t be done?

Watch this!

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Speaking of scuba diving, my tanks are overdue hydro

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from Dave DiBenedetto wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Deet,

heck, i'm proud of my dog when it makes a solid water retrieve...can't imagine the pride you'll feel watching your son in the stream. have fun. -d

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from Dr. Ralph wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Went camping Memorial Day weekend and my 17 year old caught first, biggest, most... Weird how he's the only person in the world that could school me and make me feel good about it. No better feeling than watching your son walk in your footsteps.

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from TheRiverYeti wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I saw this post late, so Deeter, maybe you'll miss it. I live 15 min north of GR and 5 minutes from the Rogue, the closest best trout stream to GR. If you're going to be in MI, I'm sure you've got lost of other top notch spots lined up, but if you're in GR for a couple days I'd love to meet and show you the Rogue. Email me dakflyer @ gmail.com if you want.

My own 8 year old caught his first brown a 10 incher, on the Rogue two weeks ago. I was just as proud of that s I am his grades

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from Big O wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I know it's early but HAPPY FATHERS DAY !
Enjoy every minute you can with him, he'll be grown before you know it.

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from chuckles wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

That's one happy kid and one lucky dad! I can't wait till my boy is ready to fish. He and mom came down to the lake and hopped in the boat a couple weeks ago. I drifted a weedline just praying a fish would cooperate and finally a nice 4 lb bass obliged. Little Z was sooo fired up, "That's a big fish daddy!" were some a the best words I have ever heard while fishing. After I let it go he gave us half and hour of "Catch another one!" I only hope the enthusiasm lasts as long as mine has.
Happy fishing in MI, let us know how it went. Happy Father's Day to you as well.

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

If they give us a break I'll look for you on Saturday.

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from Wags wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Great pic and good luck. Any chance you are going to spend some time on the PM? My first Hex experience happened down by Walhalla. Didn't know a bug could get that big!!

Seeing Paul in his got me thinking about getting a set for my oldest (now 10). I did a quick search for USED youth waders. Not much on the internet, at least not at a quick glance. That would be a great project for a TU or some such organization. My only qualm about getting him a set is knowing they probably won't fit next year. A "kid swap" for gear would be a tremendous help. Just a thought.

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from Jeepdude1987 wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I've got a tip cover your ears. LOL

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Steelhead are still running strong on the St. Mary's River. Always wanted to hit this run with someone that knew what they were doing.

http://www.freep.com/article/20090607/SPORTS10/906070516/1048/SPORTS/The...

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from FloridaHunter1226 wrote 2 years 34 weeks ago

Good luck, have a good drive and hope you didn't forget your patience, you are going to need it.

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Lucky kid! And lucky dad! If you end up going deep on Lake St. Clair don't be surprised to get a face to face with a muskie.

If you're in MI at the end of June through early July then be sure to hit the night hex hatch, if our temperatures ever rise. It can still get down to the 40's at night.

As for tips ... I have a feeling there is not much we can tell you. But if you get to the northern Michigan trout rivers, avoid the aluminus flotilla hatch at all costs - have to get out in early morning and late evening or on weekdays.

Of course, go where there's lots of fish. If you have a canoe/raft that you can portage a 1/4 mile, there is a catch and release only lake in the northern lower - HUGE gills, bass, and pike. Near impossible to wade/fish from shore. Nice at midday when the rivers are full of canoes. Get my e-mail from the webmaster and I can send you the directions.

Be sure to stop at the old Au Sable Fly Shop in Grayling to meet Andy and to find out what trout are hitting and the best places to wade for a young kid (www.oldausable.com). Also consider taking an Au Sable river boat float. Then to Gates Lodge on the banks of the Au Sable (www.gateslodge.com) for a second opinion and to have lunch. When I took a 12-year old flyfishing for the first time, we took a break for lunch and had some of Julie's excellent soup and sandwiches while sitting at a window seat. He's several years older now, still remembers that day, and wants to stop for lunch whenever he's near the lodge.

Then there's the big water floats .... Too many other options to cover here. If you're going to other areas and want some help let me know and I will try to point you to someone.

I think you're all going to have a lifetime of memories from this trip.

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

This Young Man Paul is the definition of “WOW”!

My Grandson Alex age 10 is already showing the finesse of a true Sportsman

My Fly Fishing skills are like a “BULL WHIP”!

Perhaps we can make a deal, show my Grandson Fly Fishing and I’ll introduce Paul to the “SITNC” Club.
Shoot Them In The Next County Club!

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from karmano wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

He is adorable in those little waders. I remember my first pair. I didn't get to use them much because my dad was too afraid of me falling in the river and filling them up even with a wader belt cinched extremely tight. He carried me across every river instead. Have a great time in Michigan. I'm sure it will be quite the adventure.

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from fishingfury wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I cant wait till my son reaches his age!

Happy fathers day!

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Thank you very much for such a thoughtful response and great insights. I'll follow your lead. KD

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Oh ... not the time of the year for anadromous runs but you can wet a line in the Grand River, right downtown. Rogue River for trout is fairly close. I'll be at the OWAA for a Saturday workshop but can't stick around.

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from jcarlin wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Deeter,
That is one happy looking kid. Have fun.

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

MLH- I'll be at OWAA Sat. for a trade magazine seminar, and an editor meet-and-greet after, would love to see you.

jcarlin- the smile behind the camera was bigger. Thanks.

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Clay, that's a deal, as long as I get a few shooting pointers also. KD

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from Alabama Flygirl wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Very cool Deeter! Have fun and be safe!

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from buckhunter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I hate to steal a quote from a movie but after seeing that photo I feel like "I was witnessing perfection".

Drive carefully Deet.

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from kirkdeeter wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

buckhunter... he's named Paul for a reason. Thanks.

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from Alex Pernice th... wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

1, Deeter, that's the best movie EVER!
2, if you come around the burbs of Chicago, come my way for some real fishing...

AP

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

kirkdeeter

You’re on Sir provided you show me a few pointers too!

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

PS I wish I had a nickel for every fly I lost,

POW"GONE!

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Got thinking about Young Paul, I believe when he grows up going to be one of those fella’s to say

Can’t be done?

Watch this!

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from Clay Cooper wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Speaking of scuba diving, my tanks are overdue hydro

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from Dave DiBenedetto wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Deet,

heck, i'm proud of my dog when it makes a solid water retrieve...can't imagine the pride you'll feel watching your son in the stream. have fun. -d

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from Dr. Ralph wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Went camping Memorial Day weekend and my 17 year old caught first, biggest, most... Weird how he's the only person in the world that could school me and make me feel good about it. No better feeling than watching your son walk in your footsteps.

+1 Good Comment? | | Report
from TheRiverYeti wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I saw this post late, so Deeter, maybe you'll miss it. I live 15 min north of GR and 5 minutes from the Rogue, the closest best trout stream to GR. If you're going to be in MI, I'm sure you've got lost of other top notch spots lined up, but if you're in GR for a couple days I'd love to meet and show you the Rogue. Email me dakflyer @ gmail.com if you want.

My own 8 year old caught his first brown a 10 incher, on the Rogue two weeks ago. I was just as proud of that s I am his grades

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from Big O wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I know it's early but HAPPY FATHERS DAY !
Enjoy every minute you can with him, he'll be grown before you know it.

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from chuckles wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

That's one happy kid and one lucky dad! I can't wait till my boy is ready to fish. He and mom came down to the lake and hopped in the boat a couple weeks ago. I drifted a weedline just praying a fish would cooperate and finally a nice 4 lb bass obliged. Little Z was sooo fired up, "That's a big fish daddy!" were some a the best words I have ever heard while fishing. After I let it go he gave us half and hour of "Catch another one!" I only hope the enthusiasm lasts as long as mine has.
Happy fishing in MI, let us know how it went. Happy Father's Day to you as well.

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

If they give us a break I'll look for you on Saturday.

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from Wags wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Great pic and good luck. Any chance you are going to spend some time on the PM? My first Hex experience happened down by Walhalla. Didn't know a bug could get that big!!

Seeing Paul in his got me thinking about getting a set for my oldest (now 10). I did a quick search for USED youth waders. Not much on the internet, at least not at a quick glance. That would be a great project for a TU or some such organization. My only qualm about getting him a set is knowing they probably won't fit next year. A "kid swap" for gear would be a tremendous help. Just a thought.

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from Jeepdude1987 wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

I've got a tip cover your ears. LOL

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from MLH wrote 2 years 35 weeks ago

Steelhead are still running strong on the St. Mary's River. Always wanted to hit this run with someone that knew what they were doing.

http://www.freep.com/article/20090607/SPORTS10/906070516/1048/SPORTS/The...

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from FloridaHunter1226 wrote 2 years 34 weeks ago

Good luck, have a good drive and hope you didn't forget your patience, you are going to need it.

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